Friends in Love

actually i'm in that very situation right now...I still don't know what to do because he's already leaving the country next month. =( yes, it's really hard to pretend that you only see someone as a friend, although in reality, you actually want to spend the rest of your life with him. There are many things that you have to consider in deciding whether to tell him or not to tell him how you feel. As for me, I always think of my values, and the result of telling him the truth. Actually, I'm afraid of what I'll feel after I tell him I love him. And I'm also afraid to see his reactions. Maybe others will think I'm a coward and I don't have the courage to at least give it a shot. But I already promised myself i'm not going to tell it to him. It also breaks my heart to be uncertain of what may have been if I just told him everything. But I already decided that whatever happens, i'll never tell what I feel for him... even if it means having him only as a friend. it's because i'm happy just by looking at him, and if we are really meant to be.. maybe destiny will create a miracle for me.

As a friend had told me a hundred of times that if that person is really a true friend then your friendship wouldn't change despite of what you feel for her.

Yes I had also similar incidents were I almost fell for her but in the end I decided to have it remained as that as I foresaw its better to stay that way than go deeper into a much more complicated relationship. But I guess there is nothing wrong if you decide to pursue it further beyond friendhsip. for as long as the feeling is mutual at all.