Making worries

no i have never done that, and i will never do that. it really is NOT a good idea! think about the impression you give your partner when they eventually discover that you've lied about something. it might take some time to happen, but when the truth is discovered the trust between you will be damaged. and a relationship without trust is doomed to failure. if you really feel like they dont care about you anymore, then its time to sit down and express your feelings. dont accuse, dont demand, just calmly explain. if a relationship is in trouble, adding lies to it will never help.

Many years ago, when my husband and I were going through a bad point in our marriage, I would extremely over exaggerate certain ailments. This didn't work though, as he'd just tell me to go to the hospital, and got mad at me when I refused. I have learned my lesson, and now I am always honest. I just speak my mind when I want his attention.

no and will never.. I don't want to make any stories which isn't true just to get his attention. it will make your relationship worst if he found out that your are lying. If you feel that he doesn't care anymore, or feel something isn't right, much better if you'll confront your partner about how you feel. with that, you'll know what to do with your relationship.

I have not tried that! It would not work well, as I have often wondered when things go bad, if the deeds done were done to make me jealous or make me react in a certain way! It is best not to react, just observe and then sit back and relax! Whatever will be, will be, or que cera cera! I loved that show when I was a kid, and that song was my motto too!