Love is blind

love is blind - is love really blind?
@kharen (1488)
Philippines
July 14, 2008 4:05am CST
There are lots of explanations about this. Love is blind when you love someone even if he/she's not in the standards of what your ideal man/woman is. Love is also blind when you don't see your loved one's weaknesses. Love is blind when you still stay with the same person even though he has already taken you for granted at first. One sorry solves it all then you're back together again. You don't see the mistakes he has done to you. You have the fear that he'd commit these mistakes again and hurt you but you still stay with him 'cause you love him/her. Love makes you blind of some situations. Like when you're already hurting someone because of loving so fully. You don't see and notice these people because you're blinded by the relationship and happiness you're having. I wrote this because there's so many questions about why is love blind or is it true that love is blind. If oyu want to add some comments about this. just feel free..^^
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• Italy
15 Jul 08
task that the love is absolutely blind of the rest the feelings eyes are not had and are this the wonderful thing.Than it can end all the because our mind our firm logic and wants at all cost to dominate to us on the emotions. We would have all to try to make to less work the mind and its rules and to leave us to go more to the emotions.
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• Bangladesh
15 Jul 08
yap.u suppose to right.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 08
heres some couples that prove that love is blind couple 1 http://www.shareapic.net/content.php?gid=402938&owner=bhatugan couple 2 http://www.shareapic.net/content.php?gid=402941&owner=bhatugan
@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
15 Jul 08
In the beginning,it's blind.But when they begin to live life,it will be bright,I think.They are fall in love and feel the love each other.It's great.Not everyone could taste this feeling.So,I think when you are blind,you get the truely lover.So,don't worry.
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@adthacker (197)
• India
15 Jul 08
yup love is blind when u r in love u frget everything in ur life ,u feel u have wings to fly some times this blind love danger for u u lost lot of things in ur life but if ur love is mature than this blind love make ur life happy forever
• United States
15 Jul 08
Love is blind because the man that I am with, a lot of people do not approve of or see how I could ever love him, but he is truly the man for me. Do I care what other people think? No! If I did, I would not be with him.
• United States
15 Jul 08
Well i guess i could say that love can be very blind at times because i was with a guy for about 5 years and half and i always forgave him for all his mistakes over and over again and not until i got pregnant did the blind fold fall off when i saw the true person he really was by his reactions.. after so many years of making excuses for him i came to the conclusion that i needed to accept he never took me for granted. Its sad that it took me that long to realize he was always a very negative person who didnt ever respect me as a human being.
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@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I think they say that love is blind because it fails to see a lot of things. However for me I say that love is not blind it actually sees but it doesn't mind. Although you are aware of all the faults with the one you love you really just don't mind because you love the person because if you don't you might have left that person long before because of that flaw. Another thought is that love makes all things beautiful that's why we really don't mind about the flaws of a person right?
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I think you explained it rather well! If we saw every flaw and negative characteristic of our friends and lovers, who in the world would ever get married? We need to have a blind eye in certain situations, if there is nothing hurting us then maybe some things just do not matter? It is only when it matters, or when it will hurt us or others, that we have to do something about it!
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@katsmeow1213 (28872)
• United States
14 Jul 08
I think there is more than love playing at the situations you describe. I think there is fear and need as well. I was once in a situation like that, having a very bad relationship that I wouldn't get out of. I ignored many bad behaviors. The truth is that I didn't ignore these behaviors out of love, I did it out of fear. Fear of being alone, fear of not having a relationship. The thought that I NEEDED him in my life. I was making stupid excuses because life would be difficult if I left him, but it was easy to ignore his behavior and stay with him. That was just plain stupid!
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@zandi458 (28115)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 08
Only when you're madly in love your eyes is blinded. It is a time of fantasia, where all your thoughts have been enveloped by the so called 'love' Once that evaporates and life becomes normal you feel the world comes tumbling upon you. You have been duped into believing the man is your prince charming but turns out to be Mr toad!
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• China
14 Jul 08
Love did be blind. I mean the true love. The world presents lots of tragic love stories everyday, which fulls with betraying and hurting. But lots of us still prefer to believe love. Sometimes a silly word or dull behavior will be sweet in the lover's eyes. A lie will be a comfort.We always lose the normal standard in the relationship. Why is love blind? I just can say because of love . That is the only answer. As we know, love is a magic thing, which may lead happniess or hurt. No matter what you got or get from it, you won't stop your step to close it because love is blind.