what's the easiest way to break up?

there is never an easy way in breaking up with someone.. someone is bound to get hurt and that is why at this point the only thing that could really help is honesty.. because it would hurt more if people use such lame excuses such as i need space... its not you, its me... or the ever famous i need to find myself.. aagghh.. hehehe..

I used to start ignoring my girl friend when i decide to break up..Also you can start talking rudely..after some point of tym he/she will get the clue that you are no more intersted..

the best thing is to talk bout the prob then if you can't solve it at all, then that's the time you decide to break-up...you shouldn't have hard feelings with each other..

like what the song says "there is no easy way to break somebody's heart" this is very true no matter how you think of the easiest way, that cant be done without hurting someone...it painful no matter how we do it..but of course we need to do it if we have to..what i do is try not to brek it up face to face it will be a tirture i think...hays...

Just be straight with them. Tell them that u dont think you should be together anymore, tell them it's just not working, say u dont want to be with them anymore, say whatever u want really, just dont beat around the bush.

The easiest way to break up I think is in person. you might be worried about upsetting the other person, but personally I would be more upset if I found out my partner stayed with me because he didnt want to upset me! you cant help how you feel. So being honest is the best thing that anyone can do. nobody can make anyone stay in a relationship that they dont want to be in!

If it's a mutual lack of feelings, it's easy. Just have a good chat with the other party and amicably agree on a breakup. However, if it's not it's best to be 'Cruel to be Kind'. Be as hurtful as you can so that the other party will hate you and will forget you faster. It's no good to be nice and let the other party harbor hopes of a reunion. Never say things like 'Hope we can still be friends as being friends will make the other party take a longer time to forget you.

tell them that you have aids? LOL...kidding ^_^ the best way to tell them you want out of the relationship is just tell them straight. i think your partner deserves that,,,,

Just be honest. For a man, I wnat him to tell me right in my face. It can be, I don't love you anymore, I have met a nicer person than you or any reason he has...just don't leave me out there hanging and waiting. Because waiting really sucks. Honesty is the best...though it really hurts. Take care....you can do it man...every break-up is painful and don't be a nice guy anymore...thinking about hurting...because its already painful.

I'd tell them the truth. You know: 'I think we both thought we'd be together forever, but it feels like I've stopped getting what I need out of this relationship. I'd like to take a break and see where life takes me.' There are tons of variations on the I-like-you-but-I'm-leaving-you theme, and I don't think any of them are easy. I think it's best to tell the person flat out and try and deal with the fallout the best you can.

Just tell them.. there is no other way to break up with someone other than telling them what the deal is. You can't just not call them you must tell them... You just need to tell who ever it is whats going on and that you don't wanna be with them anymore.. If you aren't attracted to them anymore then you need to tell them that... The best way to break up with someone is to just tell them..

I have never been in such a position, but I guess telling it upfront without any fuss or hoopla will be the right method. Just walk up to him/her and speak your heart out. The reactions may be different in different cases, but the point is the person will understand you if not now, then later as to why you'll cannot continue. I think simplicity is anything is the perfect thing in any situation.

I think you cannot avoid it. I believe it's okay to tell your lover the truth. Just come to your lover, talk to her as comfort as you can, pull all honesty and the true feeling you have, and explain that the relationship won't work if one of the pair no longer has love in his/her heart. If she really love you, I believe -- even though it hurts -- she will understand. One thing; pray before you do that so God will not transport her to another world so quick after you tell her LOL!

wats the easiest way? well if the person loves u rly much..but the situation is so complicated that u cannot continue to remain in it... how to deal? help!

my friend I believe in the saying that goes, "there's no gentle way of breaking up". No matter how gentle you may want it, not being rude or not talking or telling her. It is as painful as telling her straight in her face. My suggestion is, the two of you sit down together and tell her first and foremost to slap you a hundred times and after that tell her "sorry, im breaking up with you".That's it. Of course, she will burst into tears. The right thing for you to do this time is to step out and give her all the time to heal her wound. And don't make things anymore harder for her. Once you've said your piece, never ever again disturb her for her to overcome the misery sooner.

It's true there's no easy way to break up.Just no cheating and tell the truth.

Best advice out there tell the truth Never lie and give the real reason why you want to break up with a person . there never is a easy way , ya know . Just try to be nice and not mean . Dont dance around it just come out and say it . will thank you in the end .

I think the first thing you should do is actually to prepare yourself to accept whatever the consequences of your decision. In that way you could actually express yourself better to the person you are breaking up with. Just be sincere and honest when telling that person you reasons why you need to break up.

Hey saeirchok, I would be honest with them. Tell them that you would like to have a talk. Do it in person, not over the phone, no text messages, emails, etc... That will just make it worse. Explain to them whatever the reason for the break up is. It might be difficult and they will probably get upset, but they will respect you more in the end. I would rather know that I was honest then that I broke someone's heart by being a liar or being rude.

sms and tell i want to break up !!