they say when you feel that person is the one for, it is true...

@skbh12 (2950)
Philippines
July 14, 2008 10:01pm CST
my co-workers and i talked about love issues with boyfriends and all. i said that i didn't want to have guys in my life other than my boyfriend because honestly it is tiring to find another one because everything else goes back to the beginning for example meeting up another man and tries to introduce the guy to the parents, getting to know stage. things like that tires me everytime i think of it. of course i am very much happy in the relationship i am in and it felt like he is the man i have been waiting for. he is the man i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. then my co-worker told me "when you feel that that the is the person you think you'll end up spending your life with then it will do happen". when i heard her said those words, my ears flapped with happiness and i told her "hope it does come true." i really love my boyfriend. do you think it is true that once you feel that it is gonna be him, it does happen?
3 responses
@checapricorn (16065)
• United States
15 Jul 08
Hi skbh, I agree with that, since our positive thinking will most of the time bring us to the reality of it! That's why they have said, be careful what you wish for! LOL! But, It doesn't apply to you, I just remember a friend who used to say that to us when he was still alive! I know when can feel it, when I met my husband, I have that strong feeling that he is the one and I have been dating with several men and some was longer than my husband...We can really tell the difference! Keep up the feeling and Enjoy life!
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
really? i really feel that he is my soulmate, that he is the man that i have been waiting for all my life. that he is the man of my dreams. i hope everything happens as what i have been wishing for. i want to marry and have kids with the man i am with regardless of the people who are against our relationship. i will never stop fighting for the love we both have for each other. there was this one night as we ate dinner in a restaurant near his place. we talked about our past relationships and we have compared it to our present. it gave me a smile on my face when he said that he likes the relationship he is in with me. he likes it when we go out, bond with each other, talk about a lot of things. simple things such as those are already being appreciated by both of us and we are very much happy being in this kind of situation. now i can't wait for us to celebrate our upcoming 2nd year annivesary. that will be 4 months from now. whoophie! this coming 21st, we are on our 20th month as a couple and i am hoping for more months, years to come for us... i just hope that in every trials that may surpass our way, we would be able to manage and fix it without breaking up. that we must stand strong in every situations (negative ones) we know that may arise.. enjoy life with your husband too and never stop loving him. you are blessed to have a family like the one you are having right now.
• United States
15 Jul 08
Thanks skbh,,That is very great that both of you are enjoying life together..I know how it feels and how wonderful each day to know that someone is loving and caring for us! Not everyone has a true lover, I mean not everyone has been blessed to be with the person they love, so keep the flame and pray for your relationship too! God Bless!
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
thank you checapricorn. yes i will keep the flame and love in my relationship with my boyfriend alive and that may we touch other couples out there who are having difficulties in the relationship they are in.
@scaflone8 (190)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I also agree with that skbh12 but its not only in your mine but it should also be in your heart. I'm glad to hear that you found someone that you are very much happy with and that's what is important in a relationship. Everyone of us i believe has an instinct wherein we know when we are betrayed, when we are in love, when we are happy and when we are unsatisfied in our relationship. The best thing you should do know is cultivate and nurture that love you have for each other don't neglect it and don't let it wither away.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
thanks for the encouragement you have there. yes i will do cultivate and nurture more what we have for each other for us to last as long as we both want it to be. we want to show other people that at the very first day we met, we were really meant for each other.. i just love him so much and i don't want to regret things in life such as losing a man very important to me.
@subha12 (18452)
• India
15 Jul 08
it is somtime ssaid that there are things taht mind can tell best. if your inner sould think its the best match, let it be. also if you can manage it to be, i see no problem.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
that is what i want to happen that we both end up in each others arms forever. it all started when my co-workers told me to go out without my boyfriend but i answered them saying that i surely do bring my boyfriend with me to bars because he is the only person i wanna dance crazily with.. haha.. then they told me since he isn't my husband yet, it is fun to have secrets like having boys around me without knowing him.. well with my stand, i wanted to be loyal to him and i don't ever want to break anything that we both have because i don't want to regret anything. i don't want to lose him at the same time.