What do you say to your boyfriend when you know he already has a lover before u

Philippines
July 15, 2008 12:25pm CST
I have a relationship with this guy but I'm not really in to this relationship because i had a feeling the bond between us is not that strong. Just this night he said that he already has a lover and they are already been together for five years and we have been together for only five months. How do u react when something like this happens to you?
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@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
Hi scaflone8. Welcome to myLot. I guess this is dishonesty. I will definitely ask him why he lied to me. It's been 5 months since you started to be together and then he don't even tell you the truth. I will just let him choose between the two of me, but If the feeling is like not that mutual I think I will let go of him. Thanks for the post. Enjoy myLotting! Take care!
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
i already broke up with him and he asked me to be friends with him and i said i dont need a friend like you hehee.. anyway thank you for introducing this site i like it here so much hehe
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Thank you also for signing under me, keep on posting. Keep on posting. Have a nice day my friend.
• India
17 Jul 08
Hi friend, I just ask him why he didn't tell me before.I surely stop talking with him because in love they shouldn't be any secrets and also i feel his love is not honest.Now he loves me tommorrow he loves some other girl,like this he is misusing the love. Have a nice day.