question about a relationship

I think in life all has to have balance, so for me the relationship has to be 50/50 if not I do not thing that will work. But who knows?

it is always should be 50/50. 2 persons are involved in the relationship. so no preference should be given on one person only. its my thought.

Relationships are 50/50. If you want to do something with your wife/girlfriend whatever, you have to have her permission first. If you go ahead and do it anyway, she's going to lose trust in you very quickly, and soon, there won't be any equality. You're going to be walking on hot coals. Best to treat her with respect and she will give you the same treatment. :D

Hi Jh, I think it should be both ways.That both wife and husband or any other realationship bf/gf should listened to each other asking what they have to do because still they are not individual.So let say if someone wants to do something or wants to buy specially in husband and wife they should both makes decissions it has to be balance otherwise relation is not gonna work.It has to be also that both person can express thier own feelings not that "because my wife what me to do this even he cannot do it then he will do it for her"its not always that way.Wife should listened and observed too.But both need to ajust to each other i agree w/ that but you cannot change the whole person. In relationship they need to support each other and respect each other decissions.It is so unfair if only one person can make decissions in the house.But that is also possible if the wife/husband let thier partner to makes all the decissions.But i dont like that idea. I really hate it.I always told my partner to go make decissions sometimes not everytime is up to me.I feel bad because he always take all what i want but i want his idea too.But he cannot make any decissions w/out me.So i am stressing everytimes w/ all the things because i am making all the decissions.Its not fun at all! Greetings from Che!