Collect..and collect..then Select!...

Philippines
July 16, 2008 1:35am CST
The saying goes you have to collect bf's/gf's before selecting the best one..do you believe it? Let me give you situation.. What if you have a suitor whose motto is to collect and collect then select..Would you refuse him?..or would you give him your sweet Yes! because you want to prove to him that you're the best for him?..that he must select you among his girls?
4 responses
@MizukiZHR (611)
• China
16 Jul 08
Of course I will refuse him because he don't respect me.How can he keep the relationship with so many girls and want to select the "best"?Love and marriage aren't goods,and we should treat treat them in the right way.Don't want to be a businessman of love,because if you only a businessman of love,I can say you can't get anything at last.
@psalm1_3 (562)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
I agree to that! Women are very precious! They're worthy to be loved and respected as best as we, men can. They're so fragile, and in the first place, emotionally weak. So, men's role is to make them feel stronger through our love, care and respect we're giving them.
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
yeah you're right!we deserve to be respected and be loved by others..no one is entitled to play with one's feelings.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
If I knew that this was his motto, I would turn him down right there and then. I'd also tell him that is not a good outlook in life. Imagine, collecting then selecting...women are not toys, not things to collect. Besides, why would I give him my big yes if I knew i was just one of his "collections" and not even secured of being "selected" yet? Also, he is the one courting you, not the other way around. he must prove that he is the right one for you, not the other way around. GGoddluck and I hope this guy finds true happiness.
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
yeah you're right..I agree..we're human..we deserve all the respect and love in this world..thanx for the response..gudlak.
@psalm1_3 (562)
• Philippines
16 Jul 08
Ummm... That shouldn't be the case.. "Being the right person is far better than finding the right person"
• Philippines
21 Jul 08
wahaha... he is a no no no!! u know what if someone couring u. it means ur the only who could make his complete.. not just one of his choices.