Been So Attached With myLot

@neildc (17239)
Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
July 17, 2008 1:24am CST
When I started mylotting, about three months ago now, I usually spend more hours in the office than I usually had before. My wife nags at me almost every night whenever I came home an hour or two late. I just don't talk much to avoid quarrel and misundertanding. Have you ever experience being nagged by your spouse or been in a fight with someone, just because you have been so attached with mylot? Or with something that you can't really avoid or refuse to do it? Please do share your experiences with us. KEEP SMILING = NEIL
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14 responses
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I have not been nagged by my husband, but occasionally I do feel guilty about spending so much time here at myLot, so I take a break and only come here when my husband is busy. If he needs help, I will get off the computer right away to help him. Nothing is worth ruining a marriage over! If myLot is causing your wife to get upset, then I would stop for awhile or, at the very least, only post a few things each day and come home earlier. I believe she has a valid issue. If you come home an hour or two later than normal because you are here in myLot, you are being unfair to your wife. Apparently, she wants you to spend more time with her... and you should! Do you have children? If so, that's an even more important reason to be home as much as you can. Family should always come before friends, especially if the friends are online and not in person.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Sounds like my experience!ha!ha! There was one time that I did not noticed the time as I was so engrossed with my posting. I failed to realize that I had previous arrangement that I would meet my husband at SM Makati at 7:00 pm. and I only remembered when I heard my mobile phone ringing and it was my husband. I looked at the wall clock and how shocked I was to see it was already 7:15 pm. When I answered my hubby he was asking about my whereabout, well I could not lie of course so I admitted. "I'm here at mylot honey, please don't get angry,just keep yourself busy buying all the stuffs you need, don't worry I'll be there in an hour!" Then, my hubby asked, "Mylot, where is mylot? What lot are you talkin' about"? Well of course I did not explain anymore as I had to pack my things up. I just told him I'd explain later. (ha!ha!ha!ha!)
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 08
Hi there neildc, I am glad that you join mylot. You been a very good friend to me. Tell her we are just good friends, no need to get jealous. lolHope our referrals will wake up oneday and we can get more earning. Happy posting my friend!! oxoxo'dian
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Jul 08
thanks dian. you are also very nice to me.
@juliefaye (1214)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
My hubby doesn't nag me but told me to stop mylotting. That was the time that one user here put nasty tags on my discussion. I told this to him and his solution is to stay away from mylot which I followed suit. After a few months, friends invite me again to try so here I am. There are still nasty tags but I can now handle it.
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
My spouse doesn't know about my mylot activities. But I have one person that I had a fight or should I say a misunderstanding with regards to mylot. You know who he is, right. LOL. A misunderstanding about a comment and a misunderstanding about attention. Glad we have talked things out. I can't afford to lose my ever dearest best. hahaha. Gotcha! HUGZ! to you my [/b]BEST[b]
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
i'm still a newbie in here, i think i'm still in a week.. but really i'm so addicted in here, everytime i go to sleep i keep on dreaming about my-lot.. what will be my topic for the next day and how much is my earning, lol.. can't help it..!! gosh my-lot your making me crazy...
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Jul 09
hi jane. easy easy easy. it's okay to be an addict but i don't want to have a crazy friend.
@jcj_111776 (3216)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
When I was a newbie a year ago, I was so into MyLot. There were times that I would spend several hours MyLotting and will just go to bed at 2 or 3 in the morning. My mother who stayed with us for a few weeks was so irritated with the way I was spending my time here at MyLot. She was convinced that I was wasting time, electricity and I was also risking my health by not going to bed early. But as the months passed by, I soon learned to curb my attachment here at MyLot. Now, sometimes I go to bed a few minutes before 12 midnight. But this doesn't happen all the time. I usually MyLot in the mornings now. When my son is at school. That leaves me with 3 free hours for MyLotting. As soon as it's time to pick him up from school, I shut off the computer and do my duties for the rest of the day. Before, my husband used to comment on how attached I was to MyLot. He was convinced that I was also wasting my time here. But he soon realized that no matter how attached I am with MyLot, I don't neglect everything else. No matter how I love Mylotting, he and our son will always come first.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
you only joined three month ago and you have over a thousand post? wow. your wife has a reason to nag about har har har, maybe i joined three months ago too or four months ago, but i cant go to mylot everyday. i need to do practise and some errnads. i love playing with my two year old son than to be at mylot. i can go to mylot twice or three times a week and if i am here everyday that means there are not much pressure at work. i am in a band so we need to practise but not everyday. i think you are going crazy over mylot for some say this is addictable. no cure for this pal.
@boogli69 (53)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
I really have not experience this kind of situation while I'm doing my stuffs here. As I am not that active (wish I could be), due to work loads. I rarely visit mylot nowadays, coz I really have no time. But, my husband doesn't mind whatever I am doing in the internet coz he understands that it is my past time. Take care neildc. Say hi to dhangski for me.
@sweety_81 (2124)
• India
28 Jul 08
Well; even I have started feeling that Mylot is quite addictive . I feel that it sometimes excites you so much that you tend to neglect other things .
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
17 Jul 08
No I have not yet been into conflict or disagreement with anyone yet due to being in mylot. Infact I motivate others to join this site for it is very helpful.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
24 Jul 08
that's good to hear. thanks for being helpful too.
17 Jul 08
Hi Neil, Men always say wives nags but wives never nag they ask or tell but husbands never hear the first time,second time or third time so when they do hear eventually,they say wives nags is it not? my husband nags at me to do his food and he also say I spend too much time on Mylot, he don't understand its my pleasure and thats the only thing I have. Tamara
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
24 Jul 08
i guess that's good, minding our own business. thanks.
@karjyo (830)
• India
28 Jul 08
My husband too does not like me mylotting. So whenever he comes home from office, i immediately log out and spend time with him. You too should give your wife more time. I think she must be more important to you than mylot.
@thestar (304)
• Egypt
25 Jul 08
i think that mylot is very nice site i'm just new here but i can feel free here second i think that we have to learn from mylot how to be active in our personal life and with our family this is mean we have to react with our families members and solve the problems that stuck right there this my opinion i don't know about you but i think that you are this wise man how could solve his problem very gently good luck with your family my friend .