U hurriedly go home and you expect him to be there but his not, what did you do

Philippines
July 17, 2008 11:36am CST
my partner usually went home after his work earlier than me. i mean we have a different schedule and his schedule is earlier than mine.i expect him to be at home. but i always end up disappointed. the house is a mess. no cook food..everything. its okay if he just left a note on where on hell did he went but he didnt..am i acting normal or im just being so demanding again??guys how would you feel if your on my shoes??what would you do??the whole situation is pissing me off..
1 response
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
17 Jul 08
i would be the same way. i don't think its about being demanding. i think its about respect. if he respects you he could atleast leave you a note. I expect the same thing of my husband. I'm a stay at home mom so i'm always home. I don't mind if he has places to stop after work, but i'd appreciate a phone call. and after spending all day apart i'm excited to see him, which is why its hard when he doesn't come home when i expect him and he doesn't call. your partner should be excited to see you and be home when you get there (atleast most of the time).
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
a note or a call really matters..i guess his so used on doing it because if i get mad at him he knows that my madness would not take long. guys are so insensitive sometimes..its really not fair feeling this way..seems like im the only one affected..as if im the only one excited seeing him after those excruciting hours at work..why cant he just stay at home and wait for me to get home..his so annoying..