Can you invite somebody on a date even if you don't have any money?

Philippines
July 17, 2008 1:18pm CST
Can you dare ask a woman on a date even if you don't have money in your pocket? And make them pay after you have your dinner.. I guess nobody can do that.. Are you man enough to ask? or is that a measure or a gauge to be called man enough? Naahhh, you figure it out.
5 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
17 Jul 08
You can ask a woman out, but don't have to take her somewhere where you need to pay. You can plan a nice picnic for her, or a hike through the woods or through a beautiful park to get to know each other. You can invite her over to play board games and cook for her.
@Tiherina (83)
• United States
17 Jul 08
A date doesn't have to cost money. There are several things to do on a date besides dinner and a movie. Invite her on a walk, or invite her to see a movie at your place, or go swimming at a lake. A woman would appreciate that a bit more than paying after you invite her out to eat.
17 Jul 08
If somebody had asked me out on a date and then expected me to pay, I would be furious and walk out but if he asked me out and explained that he had no money at the moment, would I mind paying I would grumble but if he is nice then I would say yes I'll pay!!! I have never met or heard anyone who has done this. If you the one who is asking then you should be the one paying!!
@halynn (1809)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I'm w/cinderella 2007, if a man did that to me i wouldn't pay & i would never go out w/him again. Don't ask a woman out if u don't intend on paying for the meal.
@scaflone8 (190)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Wow that would be very discourteous for you a man to that to a woman. It's a general rule that the one who ask is the one who shall pay. There are a lot of ways like take her out on a park, strolling around the village, make her a dinner and movie at your home would be a better alternative than taking her to some restaurant and making her pay after. It would be a very very bad thing to do. ~Scaflone~