Who's the Boss, in Your Relationship.?

United States
July 17, 2008 4:09pm CST
Who's the boss. I am a strong minded person. Sometimes I come across the wrong way. Its a struggle. We know we are gonna have to compromise, but it is just getting to that point. And who will get the last word.? I know I want it but so does he. So that goes back to who's the boss?
2 responses
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
17 Jul 08
Neither one of us are the boss. We are both pretty independent, and we like it that way. Don't get me wrong, we are always there for each other, but when it comes to going somewhere or doing something, if the other doesn't care to join in then it's okay. We both work and have our own money and seperate accounts, and we both share in the bills, but as for spending money on whatever we want too, there is no feeling of having to ask the other. And there is no need for arguements or who is going to get in the last word.
• United States
17 Jul 08
We are the same way as far independancy. We share our bill but have our own money also. But when it does come to an argument, we are both pretty bull headed. I'd say I'm the boss. He'd probably say the same thing about his self though. LOL! ! ! And we also have time with our friends. There is no problem there.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
10 Aug 08
I would surely let her be the boss all the time but side by side i would keep a check over things that are happening. Understanding her as my boss doesnt mean i would act like a slave! and nor would she like it but yes i would love her to boss around in a sweet way! however i would like to keep a equality on both the sides.