Mistaken as "call girl", how will you face it?

Philippines
July 17, 2008 11:17pm CST
Me and my group of friends came from late night gimmick. It's my day off then. It's around 11 pm when we decided to go home. I was in the way or street where in "street girls" usually roaming in the area. I will not elaborate more since I really know all of us aware what they are doing. I am not condemning them but just really feel pity on why they have to choose that kind of living. I was waiting for a cab when an old man came to approach me, telling and showing me his bucks of money. I got nervous and fear really occurred to me that time. My God, how could this man think me of that way when I am just wearing a plain t-shirt, faded jeans and rubber shoes. I'm even drained that time and no make up on! I really felt insulted. I'm about to call a police but thanked God, an empty taxi passed by. I can't believe it happens. I am mistakenly identify as a call girl! I really curse that night and really promise,once that man and I happens to crossed path, he will really received a slapped on me! That I swear!
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17 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
18 Jul 08
it is very sad what happened.. i think those type of people has lost the power of judgment before approaching some.its sad how these peopel are getting degraded each day. they should think of the women in their family before acting stupid like this.
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• Australia
19 Jul 08
I wouldn't take it personally, probably just an old man trying to get some, and hoping that you were that kinda girl.
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• Philippines
18 Jul 08
it happens to me several times already...i work on night shift on a call center company and i walk during nights..time where call girls are out to hook up..i live along the highway and there is this one time i'm about to go inside our gate a car stopped in front of me and opened up his car window asking me how much...yeah thats cruel...so i already knew i was mistaken as a call girl..i just gave him a look that can almost kill him and walk pass by him..then he drive away...somehow i got used of it already, at first i feel so disgusted and mad but now i just don't pay attention to it anymore...
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@nupats (3564)
• India
18 Jul 08
well i can understand what u mean we all gang of girls decided to go for a late night movie show..so we got ready and reached the multplex ...we all had decided on meeting at the bus stop near the hall so mw and one friend were waiting for others someone actually pulled up a car and asked how much we were shocked and just told him to get lost and told him we are not what he thinks...he went off...later we came to know this bus stop was a late night pick up point....so now we are more careful and normally meet at family restaurant..that is safer..
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@inia_54 (175)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 08
Can't blame him for thinking like that. It's late a night. And you are in the wrong place. Moreover you are alone by yourself. That area is a hot spot for men to have fun and for the street girls to make money. Luckily the taxi came just in time to save you. So becareful my dear, the next when you are out late at night.
• United States
18 Jul 08
If I could I would break his jaw for, Please do not let that ignorant waste of walking sperm get to you..,That guy is a fu***** A-hole for doing that to you completly disrespectful! And I'm sure you are beautiful with or with out make-up when I look at your avatar I see a beautiful Goddess looking back
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Hi sweet, That happened to me and my 2 other close friends..We didn't enjoy at the disco place so we decided to hang out in the boulevard in our place, at 1030 pm, we were enjoying how these pimps do their transactions and all...You know! So, with that, we were approached by one,Oh my gosh..LOL! We can't believe it and the one who wants us was waiting like 20 ft from us, we told him that we are waiting for friends and we are not like that..LOL! They don't believed us since they have said that we've been there for a long period of time...This time, they guy came to us, so it was 2 of them...We stand and tried to get a cab and they were so forceful, Good thing, we had a cab and we were saved...We were just laughing and swear not to do it again without any male company at that time!
• United States
18 Jul 08
i'd just tell him to take a hike before i called a cop. he's probably one of those guys that assume any woman on the street at that time must of course be doing it.it wouldn't have mattered how somebody was dressed.
@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I got mistaken for a call girl once. A drunk man came up to me and asked for a good time. I naturally punched his face. While he was lying on the ground I yelled at him--- "How could you mistake me for a call girl, I'M NOT EVEN A GIRL!!!" He got up wiped the dust from his pants and said: "Figures, you were the ugliest call girl I ever saw but I said to myself - What the heck I'm drunk!" That's when he got the second punch from me. - ROTFL!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jul 08
sweetbarie that was awful poor you, I am glad 'a cab came by when it did,maybe you should have slapped the old fools face for him.but maybe next time you and your friends could sort of avoid that street as old fools will;pickon any girl they see, thats why they are old fools.
• Philippines
18 Jul 08
good day.. I meant this at no offense but you can't totally blame the guy why? It's almost midnight, he might be drunk and you were at that place. I know it's unfair to pre-judge or profile a person but sad to say some men are like that. Spirits always makes a man worse than he actually is. Next time avoid those kind of place at those time and ask for company if you can't help being in that place. Just my 1 cent.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
18 Jul 08
hi dear it is not a unique case. the time and the scene is ripe enough . you can blame him . you also know why the girls will be there and only thing is that he was only checking on you for all other things were on the tock and may be he also thought , and mistook you for the new one on the rocks!! pl take care. time is tough!!!
• United States
18 Jul 08
oh yea, dont ever let them think your fresh meat because they'll jump all over that thats anywhere and especially in the projects--the guys will never leave you alone and the girls will tear you up any way they can.
@darksorrow (4666)
• Bangladesh
18 Jul 08
There was nothing to get shocked. You said that street girls lurk around that place, so that that hentai showed you money. But one thing is for sure, that hentai did not have the sense of good or bad. One more thing i can suggest you that if you cross path with that hentai then slap him & give him a bonus by hitting him between his legs. That way he might get the sense of who is good or bad.
• United States
18 Jul 08
Ugh, that's awful. I'm so sorry that happened to you; that must have been so humiliating and degrading to you! Try not to let it get to you; the guy was an idiot, and you got out without any harm done, right? (Well other than the fact that it happened).
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
18 Jul 08
The problem was the situation you put yourself into being in that place and female. Bad light and old age may have caused him to approach you. Even without make-up and respective clothing, you still probably looked more attractive than many of the choices available on that street at the time. Moreover 'fresh meat' is often not dressed for the 'job', lol. I really can't blame him for mistaking you for one of the 'professionals'. Blame the situation you put yourself into and count your blessings that you managed to escape that quickly.
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
18 Jul 08
WOW! I would have slapped him and made a huge scene. But then I have to ask what were you wearing? Not to be offensive, but did you deserve it?
• India
18 Jul 08
It's not your fault or the man fault, all the situation happen with that location where you stand, if any person stands on bar and taking soft drink people will think he is taking some other, so you don't think more and forget that incident.