What You Gonna Do?

Malaysia
July 18, 2008 10:43am CST
I have a relationship with a girl that i knew about 6 month and i really love him. The problem is she keep telling me that she can't forget her ex boyfriend. I really love her and i don't want to let go her. If yo in my situation what you gonna do? please help me. i really need some good advice.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
20 Jul 08
hello friend In my mind,If i love a girl ,i will let her happy.Sometimes,I think if a girl don't love me,even though i take her with me,she will be unhappy,and me too.So I think if you love her, you should honor her choice.Because love can't be forced.we should be willing to accept some one's love.Thus, we can get happiness.I think you should believe if you are lucky with her, you will stay with her in future. Good luck to you
• Malaysia
20 Jul 08
thanks for the advice and so for all that post to me!! thank alot!! you all are my friends
@alcazar (761)
• India
18 Jul 08
Well...i ll just give her own time...becouse i dont think we cant force someone to love us..just tell her that ...no matter what happens...you are there for her...
• Malaysia
19 Jul 08
i try my best!, thanks everyone!
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
tell her what you feel about it. and ask her why she always tell it to you. Its ok to talk with our past but its not good when we always talk about them. IF i were in your situation, I will tell to my bf that I'm hurt and ask him if he really loves me so that I will know if he is still inlove with his past. Have an open relationship. And know her feelings better for a longer relationship. Face the reality. Don't be afraid to b left alone. Only those believe in true love finds their true love and happiness. Stay safe. Be brave.
18 Jul 08
Johar_ahmad, Its very difficult for a girl because she has deep emotions for he ex-boyfriend, whenyou love someone and you break up you can't turn your feelings of like a tap, in time she will get over her ex-boyfriend so I think you should give some space and just wait, be there for her when she needs you. Be strong and paient and wait for her. Tamara
• Malaysia
18 Jul 08
Thanks tamara, i will try my best to win her heart.
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 08
Honestly, I think this girl is not worth for your love. If she really loves you so much, she must be able to forget about her past. It's really ridiculous to tell a present boyfriend that she cannot forget her past boyfriend. Friend,just forget about her. Sorry for saying this.
• Malaysia
18 Jul 08
If sacrifices is needed i will let her go if that the only way for her to be happy. I think i should help her to get her ex boyfriend back to her. :(
• United States
18 Jul 08
I would not be able to stay with them if they were still hung up over their last relationship, I would tell her that when she is ready to start a fresh relationship, with only one person in mind that you could be in a relationship again.
• Malaysia
18 Jul 08
i really love her and i don't want to let her go. Thanks for the advice
18 Jul 08
If i was you i would let her go i know its going to hurt since u love her. After only six months it seems she agreed to you just to try to 4get her ex look man dont put ur self in a position thats not fair for you. ive been in that situation once and it hurts but last i heard i ended up happier than her. Oh and dont help her with her ex man that make u look bad.
• United States
18 Jul 08
Maybe now would be the time where you wait it out to see if she can fully get over this guy. Cause its not fair to you to be in a relationship when shes having feelings for someone else.This doesnt mean to stop your friendship with her. Just be friends for now and help her through.No since in rushing things. I hope things work out for you though!=)