What do you do to stop a quarrel?

China
July 19, 2008 1:22am CST
As we all know, quarrels are inevitable in a relationship, but you let them be, they may lead to the end of a relationship. So the art of stopping a quarrel properly is very important. Then what do you often do to stop a quarrel?
6 responses
wendy1980
@wendy1980 (131)
• China
19 Jul 08
I will do someting to stop the quarrel: 1. to be calm,don't say anyting that will hurt another one. 2.to find the reason why the quarrel bagin,then we can solve it. 3.to be tolerant,think the thing at the place of another.
nicholaYa
@nicholaYa (121)
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19 Jul 08
well...most of us will think like you ..but how many people will do like this.,.i mean word is one thing but carry it out is other thing...
baddying
@baddying (88)
• China
20 Jul 08
At this point, I agree with nicholaYa. When you are in a quarrel with your lover, you are actually very angery and you cannot think as reasonably as usual. It is probable that you throw out hurting words to your partner with that emotion.
karjyo
@karjyo (830)
• India
23 Jul 08
To stop a quarrel i will avoid back answering. Apart from that a will calmly try to think of the reason of the quarrel and try to solve it. (I must say that generally this does not happen).
mich_23
@mich_23 (120)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
I'd rather keep quiet than argue with my partner because talking at the same time with something that you dont agree could even lead to a worse matter.
roanne05
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
19 Jul 08
well just sit down and talk about it.,..listen to each other. compromise and remember love!
misty99
@misty99 (736)
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19 Jul 08
Indeed quarrel/misunderstanding between partners is inevitable.For me once the tone of my partner's voice got a bit higher than the normal,i stop.I would never add or say something that may worsen the situation.Leave him until the pressure had cool down.Sometimes keeping one's mouth shut is better than fighting for what you believed in,specially if the other party starts to blow his top.
pkraj111
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
20 Jul 08
I usually go away from the place for a few minutes which gives me time to think and stay calm.If I stay there the quarrel will only increase