I'm Confused!!

hi there johar, i dont know the earlier post you have but still i want to give my views base on what i read here at your discussion. sometimes there are situation when people cant forget someone but that doesnt mean that they still love that person they cant forget. she cant live without you maybe because you are the one who is giving her strength to go with life. you are the one where she gets her power. if you leave her she might just go crazy. well that is only my views. some people get in to a relationship to forget the past easily. try to be more patient.

Hi Hojar_ahmad, Ye I remember you were asking advice, well my friend dont't break it of just like that I think you should stay apart for a little while and then see how she feels, give a chance to your relationship and don't too quickly. take time and take slow, and give her a chance, it is very hard to just forget her ex like that so be paient and yes I do think she loves you. I wish you luck and sort it out for both of your sakes. Tamara

You are the rebound guy. She is not over her ex. It's obvious he broke up with her. Her ego and self-esteem will get another blow, if you break up with her. She doesn't want to be without your support and adoration of her, but she also doesn't really want to be with you but her ex. Since she has been talking about her ex so much, she is most definitely not over him. You don't tell your new beau that you are still hung up on the old one. She enjoyed the open ears you had for her to talk about this, but she is obviously not in love with you. My advice: You will always be second to the ex. Unless you like hearing about how hung up she still is on him, unless you like to have pointed out that you are only second choice, you should move on and forget about her. You are wasting your time. She is not in love with you, she likes you, you are a friend possibly a friend with benefits, but that's it. She still loves the other guy.

Hi,Johar_ahmad. She doesn't really love you. She said like that it was because her ex-boyfriend didn't come back with her. Suppose, one day, her ex-boyfriend tells her Let's come back together. She will break with you right away. And right now, you are the shadow of her ex-boyfriend.