how good is mylot?
By xboxboy
@xboxboy (5576)
July 19, 2008 8:03pm CST
i am going to be honest while i am drunk.
11 years ago i had a nervous breakdown. i struggled throgh it without medical help because that's what you do!
i contemplated suicide. real suicide. life was a drag and why continue? i will not dwell on the reasons for and against. but my friends i grew up with dissappeared.
this is the point of the discussion. today a friend i have not seen for 15 years as he immagrated to australia, is back and has missed me out of his 'visiting' rota!!
i felt gutted. i did not know what i had done to deserve this. he was 'my best mate'!
i guess i am drunk right now and asking this as i have not mentioned this to my wife. but i have been a sh1t recently and this was the reason why.
i am rambling. i find mylot friend so much more honest.
there is more to this story but not interesting.
i guess i am asking if you have had a mid life crisis?
have you even read this far!!!!
i contemplated suicide. real suicide. life was a drag and why continue? i will not dwell on the reasons for and against. but my friends i grew up with dissappeared.
this is the point of the discussion. today a friend i have not seen for 15 years as he immagrated to australia, is back and has missed me out of his 'visiting' rota!!
i felt gutted. i did not know what i had done to deserve this. he was 'my best mate'!
i guess i am drunk right now and asking this as i have not mentioned this to my wife. but i have been a sh1t recently and this was the reason why.
i am rambling. i find mylot friend so much more honest.
there is more to this story but not interesting.
i guess i am asking if you have had a mid life crisis?
have you even read this far!!!!7 people like this
13 responses
@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
20 Jul 08
I am not old eough to hae had a midlife crisis, and if I have one now that means I'm only going to live o e fifty-four. haha
My huband has been through a couple of rough patces, and I think I helped him thorugh those. While I have not had any major problems in my life, I hae been along for the ride.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
i did read it that far, and guess what, i am typing you a response 
. well i am just making you smile. we all have our ups and downs i myself felt that pain when people missed me out on visiting or inviting. and it is more painful because they are not just friends they are relatives. they went abroad but before that we are soclose then after 10 years they are all so different already. money can really change people. but lucky i have a wife that is my bestfriend that i can really live without them. specially now that i have a two year old child. before i get easily hurt with this kind of character now i dont care anymore. people change and so am i.
. well i am just making you smile. we all have our ups and downs i myself felt that pain when people missed me out on visiting or inviting. and it is more painful because they are not just friends they are relatives. they went abroad but before that we are soclose then after 10 years they are all so different already. money can really change people. but lucky i have a wife that is my bestfriend that i can really live without them. specially now that i have a two year old child. before i get easily hurt with this kind of character now i dont care anymore. people change and so am i. 
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
9 Aug 08
I'm yet to hit the mid life years, but i know how tough it can be to deal with someone who does crumble. I just hope you are on the mend and only having a couple of drinks at a time now. Need to make them last longer so you have more for later
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Jul 08
xboxboy why are you drinking when you havethat lovely
daughter and a loving wife? shame I am so sad that your
friend dissed you like that. why are you being a idiot to
'your wife and daughter, you know they dont deserve that'and
they werent the ones who dissed you. why not talk it over'
with your wife instead of burying your hurt in a bottle
of booze? She can help you to overcome your hurt and sadness as you still have your wife and beautiful daughter.I had an old
age crisis when I first came home after being forceably
retired, as I did not know what to do with my spare time then
I found mylot and its made a big difference in my life,I am
happy again and have some new friends too.
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@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
20 Jul 08
Hello xboxboy,
Everyone have midlife crisis sometime or other and some get worse then others but now what you have to do let the past in the past don't worry about your old mate not wanting to know you because I had one like that look forward to the future because you one and you have got a life worth living with your wife and start afresh and forget about the resr, leave it behind you.
Tamarafireheart.
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
20 Jul 08
Yes I like mylot and it is very addicting.
I just wish that they would have something to where I can see how much money for make for doing things individually. Unless they already do and I missed it. I am not sure. 
Still a little new in some areas. But I got the blogging part down.
I just wish that they would have something to where I can see how much money for make for doing things individually. Unless they already do and I missed it. I am not sure. Still a little new in some areas. But I got the blogging part down.
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
20 Jul 08
Yep - read the whole thing! LOL
I'm a little into the sauce myself right now, so I'll answer your question honestly.
My first mid-life crisis had me panting after and catching a lucious man 25 years my junior. Oh what a summer that was! LOL
My second mid-like crisis had me marrying a not quite as lucious man 2 years my junior. The jury still out on that one..............HIC!
As for your prodigal friend giving you a miss - stuff him, I say! WE appreciate you and would hunt you down if you went MIA on us.
@ellie333 (21016)
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20 Jul 08
Hi Xboxboy, Yes I read that far and can feel that you are hurt right now because of this friend bypassing you on their visit. I would try not to take it too personally especially if you haven't been in contact over the fifteen years, maybe others have and in his time allowed just wasn't able to catch up with you even though he may have wanted to. You have a lovely wife and family now put you enrgies and strength into that now rather than dwell on this incidents from the past eh! Share with your wife how you are feeling and how he made you feel by not stopping by to say hi to you so she knows where you are at eh! I hope you don't have too much of a hangover in the morning. Big Hus. Ellie :D
@lanyoublue2008 (882)
• China
20 Jul 08
I think it is so good, we could express our ideas and make friends here ,you could not be alone here and get the warm to walk more on your life road!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
20 Jul 08
hello there.well i never experienced in my life something like that.if we are down or needs somebody to lean on talk to our friends and it helps.and to get drunk coz of probs also does not help so if you feel down go out and enjoy the fresh air outside thats all i can say thank you and life is too short so enjoy every minute of it dont give up my friend you are not alone.
@TessWhite (3146)
• United States
20 Jul 08
Maybe when you sober up things will seem better and be more clear for you also. Good luck.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Jul 08
oh, not sure thats mid life. i've done it several times in my life without medical help. my family is actually amazed at how many times i've bounced back without being put away. lol. im not making fun here. i understand your pain. believe me. about the friend, its happened to me and many others. maybe hes jealous or something. what if, like me, you had 5 kids and only one is willing to ever help you? now, thats depressing. hope you feel better.
@Cinnamoncandy78 (54)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I read that far xboxboy. I'm not sure why your friend did that... but I have found in my own life that friends will let you down.
