Is there really a black sheep in the family?

I believe so because base in my experience with a distant family member a lot of them is telling me not to be involve with that relative of ours in any other way.Me being not believing in those kind of things because i believe that the only persons that can give a family member a chance to change is there family itself.so i give him the chance to change but in the end he betray me and to make the situation worse he included my husband.He left us with nothing financially but lucky for him because my husband is too considerate we just let him be.So base in my experience even though how good the parents discipline their child if the child is bound to inherit the bad genes of a certain family i believe there will always be a bad sheep in the family.forgive me for my response i am just basing it to my experience

A person may have a different set of ideas or beliefs which may be against the rules in the family but this does not mean that he or she is a black sheep. It is possible that this person is right in his views and the family rules are wrong.

Hi watarikenji Well, I observed that there's always a black sheep in the family. I guess it's a natural. But I guess it's only how a parents mold and raise their children to be a good and obedient children. Well it only exist If parents are not treating their children that fair. Parents should be equal in terms of loving and taking cared of their children. No favoritism or one sided. And there should be discipline too. Thanks for the post. Happy myLot!

It's not always the rules of th ehouse or the parents it could be that a member doesnt want to go into the same line of work..or doesnt meet up to the high standards. There are many reasons why one may be outcasted by a family does not necessarily mean it's because they have a bad attitude problem.. it could simply be because they are finding their own selves rather than conforming to their parents idea of what the person should and has to be. In which case why would that black sheep then want to change who they are inside just for the simple fact that their parents and family disapprove badly enough to cast their child out of the family and ignore the usual idea that family should be there for eachother no matter what and unconditionally loved. There's many ways to be a black sheep and yes i think there usually is, unfortunately. Do i think there should ever be a black sheep in any family? No i don't.