Will you tell him When your man lets himself go?

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Im sorry but I know alot of people would say that its about the love but I have to say that it matters if my man lets himself go--its happening right now as we speak, my man has gained nearly 80 pounds it looks and its like what gives?What do you do in this situations??I love but I do not want to love him to death because thats what Im afraid of and I feel like he is being so selfish by not caring. His favorite thing to eat EVERYDAY is a big mug of milk and bananas and icecream and he's 38 so he could be at risk. Im mad about this because we have two kids ages 2 and 3 1/2 and Im 26 and Im not trying to be a single mom and them have no father when their grown up, im scared!Yes love is one thing but I feel like its not ok to sit back and say i love you its ok because I did do that and now its still continuing, I even brought him to the gym with me--didnt even ask him to exercise WITH me and let him go to his own section and he never came back. Not only that he has become lazy and it seems like its effort to spend time with the kids, he cant be happy with that? Have you experienced this? Is it fair to hound him about his weight? Why do some people think it doesnt matter if you love him?