are you possessive?

@shav9292 (928)
India
July 20, 2008 3:37am CST
are you possessive about your girlfriend/boyfriend.does it annoy or bother them. i am a little but my girlfriend is ok with it.
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9 responses
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
20 Jul 08
Yes I am very possessive. At first, I was very possessive with my love because I wanted good principles to integrate in our life- principles of truth, sincerity and trust. Little by little, the way I was started making no difference. She got used and was very happy to live as me because she likes the principles of truth and trust. You see, being possessive not necessarily makes a relationship bitter but if both the partner likes the principles and are very sincere, the fact of being possessive goes unnoticed. She is very happy and I am very happy with our relationship and we will marry in about 4 years :)
@shav9292 (928)
• India
20 Jul 08
thanks bro,and yeah happy married life in advance now that you have mentioned it!!!;)
• Mauritius
31 Jul 08
Thanks for the best response brother. Happy posting.
@jinxky (2248)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
im not possessive but im very jealous lol is it the same? hahaha... i used to have a possessive bf, & i cant breathe with him, thats why i broke up with him. i dont want to have possessive bf. it's just like im losing my freedom hehehe...
@shav9292 (928)
• India
30 Jul 08
yeah you are right it suffocates doesn't it...thanks for the post.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
20 Jul 08
Looking back on my past relationship, I don't think I am. Well, compared to my ex he was more possessive of me than I was of him. It bothered me a bit because even if I talked to older guys he would be jealous and would try to take me away somewhere else. I felt at the time I didn't react much about his possessiveness because I loved him. I didn't want to lose him of course so I wouldn't argue anymore.
• India
30 Oct 08
I read your pessage.... its good decision.....i also have this problem...now i got some ideas after read ur passage.......
• United States
29 Jul 08
I am not posessive because if u look back it would seem as if you are making that person into your own personal slave, but no one is anybody's property so theres on point in "owning" them..
• China
31 Jul 08
Take care. A little is Ok. But if you want to much you will lost everything. I have made a survey on the single parent dating club called soloparentdate.com. It shows 65% of them broke up just because their partner are selfish.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I consider myself as a possessive wife. Honestly, I hope my husband can't read this, I don't want to see my husband talking to other girls especially to strangers. Eventhough I don't tell him that but I really got hurt everytime I saw him talking to other ladies.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
I am very possessive sometimes. If i really love the guy. Every time i see him talking to other girls, i get jealous. I'm aware it's not good. I'm trying to change it.
@pampamzo (22)
• Germany
20 Jul 08
nop! i am not possesive. in any cae i wud think possesiveness is a sign of insecurity. i wudnt adice any one to be possesive. i wouldnt be happy with a possesive person. it even turns out to be an obsession instead of love.
• United States
26 Jul 08
I am not possessive, thats an insecurity...insecurities are weaknesses, women that are attracted to strong confident men find weakness as a bad thing. If you are exclusive with someone (like you said), it is OK so long as it is kept at a minimal. A female likes it when their man is a little jealous, makes them feel good + wanted...they love that stuff.