returning to mylot
By kerriannc
@kerriannc (4279)
Jamaica
July 20, 2008 4:21pm CST
I was absent from MYLOT for two weeks and on returning this afternoon I have read some discussions to find out that the ones who has encourage me to be here when the time was tough has left. Those who was the rock that the newbies could rely on are no longer here.
I remember being frustrated and feeling like a fish in the deep blue sea, writing about it and it was person such a DFN, MOOCH etc who's encouragement has made me become to love MYLOT. Seeing persons and different culture has it is and finally overcoming my depression that I was battling with. I noticed there was a difference in MYLOT when I came here on 1st JULY but I thought it was the holiday. I stay until the fourth and there was still that unhappiness here.
Now I am here today and wondering what is really happening. Yes the site is pretty and interesting but the citizens need to start being pretty and interesting. I think it is time for us to be as a family again. Having that oneness that was here before so that the ones that has left because of unfairness will decide to be with us again. Please let us forgive and move on. I wish for the happiness that was here that I experience in the month of JUNE.
Please let us have the love that we used to shared among each other.
KERRY
4 responses
@beccasthoughts (303)
• United States
20 Jul 08
I've been on mylot only a week now, so I have missed the drama that has occurred in the past. Yet, I understand how you feel. It seems like I find more discussions about someone wanting to swap referrals for this or that program. To me, I feel like the attention as turned from discussing similar interests and getting to know one another to how much I can earn on mylot.
I think we should stop and take a moment to think things through. It would be nice to see an introduction section/interest where we can get to know one another. I haven't found one myself yet though, or I am overlooking it.
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
21 Jul 08
The vast majority of people here join because they will be paid for discussing and when in a certain period there are a lot of new users posting there will therefore be many discussions, as you suggest, which are talking about earnings or reaching 100, 200 etc posts.
This is only a phase as once these newer users start getting themselves known and getting friends here they, as will happen to you too 
forget about the 'earning' part and start having FUN.
The 'drama' is not in every interest - try going to 'cooking', or 'places I want to visit', or 'jobs I want to do' (just examples obviously) and I doubt you will find either drama or people swapping links.
Take a long look round and if you don't want to find the 'drama' (as many of us don't) you will not see it either 
Happy MyLotting!
forget about the 'earning' part and start having FUN.
The 'drama' is not in every interest - try going to 'cooking', or 'places I want to visit', or 'jobs I want to do' (just examples obviously) and I doubt you will find either drama or people swapping links.
Take a long look round and if you don't want to find the 'drama' (as many of us don't) you will not see it either
Happy MyLotting!@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
21 Jul 08
You will be able to know others while contributing to their discussions. During the various discussions you will meet alot of friends who will ask for friendship so don't worry about introduction. Welcome to MYLOT and I hope you will enjoy it as much as I was before taking a sabbatical. Here is a good site and there are alot of good people here.
All the best.
KERRY
All the best.
KERRY
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
22 Jul 08
I Kerry,
It is great to see you back again.
I was begining to wonder where you been.
I agree I missed a few of the members that was here before, though
I only been at mylot less than 4 months, but I become attached
to some of the users and love to read and respond to their discussion.
I hope the users you mentioned will return to keep you company again.
@nupats (3564)
• India
21 Jul 08
hi dear welcome back sad to know that some of your friends have left mylot maybe they have taken a short break like you so dont be depressed dear..i am surely glad to see you back in mylot same way your friends will also come back..Happy Posting and Cheer up!! Hope to hear more from you..
