respect privacy

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
July 21, 2008 7:05am CST
since i am married i know this word and learn this word from my husband.i really appreciate of him being a husband coz we respect each others privacy like we dont read the sms if not our cell phone or reading mails something does not belong to me or him´, we respect that or opening the cabinet that it does not belong to me.
4 responses
Lakota12
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Jul 08
thats very good till ya have to clean the cabnits out or does he keep it clean himself?
Lakota12
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Jul 08
that would be great! now if all men were like that would make womens jobs much easier
bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Jul 08
hello Lakota.his cabinet is more oganized than mine.
Mare73
@Mare73 (1335)
• United States
21 Jul 08
I think it depends on the relationship. I use my fiance's cellphone all the time and answer it also and he does the same with mine. When it comes to mail in the mailbox, we only open each other's stuff it's a house bill (cable, gas & electric)...or if one of us is home and the other is not and we call the other person and ask them to open it up. As for emails he gave me his email password and every so often he'll have me go on there. He doesn't have my password...and it's only because I'm planning something for him and I'm emailing back and forth.
bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Jul 08
you are right some couple are like you but privacy to each other wouldnt hurt right?thank you and yes thats what i wanted from the beginning open each other but somehow its a lot nicer to have privacy.
Mare73
@Mare73 (1335)
• United States
22 Jul 08
I have 4 email accounts. 1 for work 1 is joint 1 is mine and 1 is the one the kids use when they play online games or for their neopets. Privacy doesn't bother me, I have nothing to hide. He knows the passwords, but not to my work one or my own one... which actually are the same passwords :-). He knows I have nothing go hide, but since I am in the process of planning some stuff he doesn't bother me with the passwords. He's never asked. When he gave me his password I told him flat out I wouldn't give it to him. He knows and respects that. Come the beginning of the year he can have all the passwords - the surprises will be over by then :-) and should I need to plan something else, I'll have people or those involved email me at work.
zeloguy
@zeloguy (4911)
• United States
21 Jul 08
[i]My wife and I were the same way and now we are seperated living in the same house and it makes things a LOT easier since we set it up that way... she has all her own bank accounts... I don't know what she does with her money and she doesn't know what I do with mine. I think respect goes a long way towards a strong marriage and it is good that you and your hubby are already going down that path![/i] Thanks Zelo
bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
21 Jul 08
yeah agree Zelo but from the biginning i dont understand but now yeah its good to have privacy.thanks to you too.
checapricorn
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
24 Aug 08
[i]Hi bombshell, I agree with you..When trust is there in relationship, we always treasure the privacy but I also don't like to blame some people since I have friends who are trying to read their hubby's SMS, since they found out some big secrets which is not also good! We are lucky to have trust in our relationship![/i]
bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
25 Aug 08
yeah che you are right! i dont even read my hubby´s sms or anything belongs to him at least if he said it to me to read something like that.