do you get along with your in laws?

@heart4u (409)
Philippines
July 21, 2008 10:19am CST
do you have a great or happy relationship with your inlawS? thats the hard thing in marriage after you marry the person you love the problem arrives on how you will get along well with your in laws just imagine you have a terror looking inlaw ih my giidness. if you want a happy married life dont live with your inlaws. what do you think ? is it really hard adjusting ? comments please thanks a lot. keep posting and keep earning in my lot god bless take care and god speed thank you very much.. add me up
4 responses
@cdb1987 (27)
• United States
24 Jul 08
i dont have any in laws, but i hope i do get alond with them someday
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
yes we are close
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
21 Jul 08
If the in laws stay out of your business, (like mine) there never should be in law problems. My first marriage consisted of a mother in law who always had suggestions for me. When I got engaged, her and her husband have six children including my ex, they bought a thirteen room house, with three floors. I was planning a home wedding. I choose my sister's house to have the wedding at. My ex mother in law, said OH, we bought this big house, because I thought you would love the idea of coming down the staircase in your wedding dress for your wedding, and we thought you guys would live here until you can get on your feet. My ex husband was in the Navy at the time. No way, would I have lived there with them and my husband was not even around. Needless to say they just made an appearance at the wedding, they did not stay very long. When my son was borned, they chimed in, OH, he can be a junior. I did not want my son named after his father. He should have his own individual identity, so we disagreed on that. My son was not named after his father. So when you have in laws who always want to get into your business, you are going to have problems. It is usually the mother. My current marriage, I did not get to meet my husband's mother she was deceased when I met him. His father is a gem.
• United States
23 Jul 08
I am not married yet but my boyfriend and I are pretty much engaged. When I first met his mother I loved her and thought she was the sweetest person. After I lived with him and his parents for a couple of months before our apartment was ready to move in I saw a completely different side to her. I have lost quite a bit of respect and I can only imagine what it's going to be like once we actually get married. And I agree, if they stay out of your business then you shouldn't have any problems with the in-laws.