less than partner more than friend

Yes I agree that society cannot digest such relations as we cannot prove them how sincere we are.........besides sometimes I feel , why the hell should society interfere and why the hell we have to give them explanation.......... About partner helping you to have a special friend........I don't think any body is born with such BIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG heart.......

Mahesh, if we need to hide something then definately it is wrong......chalo jane bhi do...........baate hai baato ka kya........

Is it possible to hide such relationship from partner? I didnot think so.Idea is not bad but difficult to explore and more difficult to hide it. regarding society since we are part of it, someone will is always notice and Infact society likes such masala's for gossips. Kuch toh log kahengey , logon ka kaam hai kehna.

I get that you are not talking of same genders. If not, I do not believe there's anything platonic on earth, there has never been. Friendship itself is a beautiful thing. Friends do appreciate, love, care for and do all that make you feel good. Anything more than that would be romantic relationship, as in between lovers. And I do not believe in romance without physical aspect of it. May be I am dumbo, but that's my viewpoint. I just wish we all get that companionship which makes us happy. HAPPY LIVING.

I guess this is a mature discussion. Once I get a certain age I would understand the essence of it. Thanks.

I don't want to discussion this in details mimpi.....everyone has different way of thinking, everyone has different level of maturity and everyone has different reasons to fall into such relationship.....When I said more that friend.....it may be anything.....if not physical relationship, but at least romantic conversations, appreciating and making each other feel important and much younger that her/his age....It depends dear, where and how you get mental peace and pleasure, which mean what gives you happiness....society did make some rules, but if these rules do not give happiness then there is no harm living your own way as long as it does not become problem for another person....By the way I am your DD.......so if I am writing this.....there should be some reason.......so choti behen...what you want to say now........

I think deepak,there are many people having such relationship as there is no harm in it, but since it is not acceptable to society or raises many questions, not much is spoken about it and is a silent attraction moving around in world of feelings. Thanks for your reply.

I agree with your view point.

Read the first response I got and my comments to that.........phir baat karna

ok bye

why i read other people comments first?? i got notoficatiion and give u reply

Ha ha ha kushank55, abhi taak nahi mili toh phir kab milegi.......keep trying, not on mylot, but in your neighbourhood. Best of luck.

wow , that is wonderful sher....kaha se laye.......kiska hai.....well well.....dil ko toh tootne ki aadat hoti hai.....is ake zindagi meh jaane kitni baar toot ta bhi hai aur khoon ke aanso rulata bhi hai, yeh toh koi nayi baat nahi hai........talash jari rakho......itni toh kut hi gayi hai zindagi, thodi si aur shai.....

thanks dear for the encouragement!! mile to bahut is zindagi mein lab talak hi nahin pahunche to baat kaise hoti? samjha tha jise is laik , nikle hi daagi to wohbaat kaise hoti? dil is kadar toota ke khoja hi nahin , khoja hi nahin to mulaquat kaise hoti?

Hello dextornap, I am happy for your. Today we are living in more advanced world. Today boys and girls are free to move around together, spend time together so that they can understand each other, in some countries they can even have relationship before marriage and when they are fully convinced that yes this life partner will be even best friend for whole life , then they get married. But our time was different. We hardly lived life for ourselves, we marry for parents, we live together as we have children and obligations and we need shelter.....and in old age we get free to think about ourselves.......time has gone, but we just imagine some good things and try to make up......so feel yourself lucky that you are born in this modern era.......All the best for your future and thanks for your reply.

Hi nengs10, It is so nice to read that your relations with you wife is now becoming friendly....actually you are right, now after 25 years with my hubby, we too have become more like friends.....may be you are write, if with time partners become friends, then there is no need of third person.......nice thinking, but do you think all are lucky like you ......lets wait and see....and thanks for reply..........have a nice day.