OMG,my ex bf is there drinking soo hard!

@mEisky (824)
Philippines
July 22, 2008 9:21am CST
uughh..I cant help it.!i cant stop worrying bout him!even if we split few months ago!My sister told me a while ago that HE's there in front of our house drinking with his friends.dang!He almost vomits cuz of soo much he drank!oops,he's gone crazy now,.I dont know why does she have to tell me since im not his GF already,and what d hell do i care bout him??uuughh.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
I have strong doubts that he is not yet over with you that is why. Anyway I would try to be as far from him as you can since these are just bad signs for you as he may be out of his right mind and might do anything against you. Well be careful as drunk person cannot be trusted since they lack inhibitions in their mind they are capable of doing something that you might regret.
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well I am not really sure of what on his mind right now. But I think you should be careful if you happen to have an encounter with him and he is drunk. Its just to be safe.
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Well,you're right.I can't actually trust a person esp if he's drunk.humm.As i saw him last night he's just sitting beside of our house..idk either what's on his mind.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Oh..you think so?haha.idk.But why is it like he's almost over me as he shows to me everytime we walked along the same road..And the last time i saw him,was when we have party here at home then his whole family was invited,and he only drove his family to our house then left.I didnt know he's there,cuz i have to welcome his family,then he only smiled at me..uugh.I can't stand him..
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
[b]Maybe he still in love with you. Maybe the reason reason why he is drinking in front of your house is for you to know that he drowns his sorrow on the drinks. Why don't you talk to him in friendly way. Ask him what's bothering him. Maybe you could help him just for the sake of your relationship before.[/b]
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
ugh.kinda..But this is the first time i saw him like that,he cant even walk directly.I want him to go home already cuz he's acting different and some of our neighbors were shouting to stop him,.I dont wanna talk to him while he's drank.maybe i should wait for it when he's calm already..thanks for your response.:)
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
That's a bit disappointing for a young guy to act that way.. Like drinking would change the reality of his situation.. The only concern that you would be worried about would be the possibility of his behavior on being too drunk and act foolishly, enough to vex other people perhaps. Then again, he simply hasn't moved on.. can't accept the fact that you two are no longer together and drinking it out might alleviate his quandary but, its still ironic that of all places that he could drink that hard, he chose to do it infront of your house.. Have you considered to deal with it discreetly?
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
I hope that when he gets back home, his parents would put some sense into his head for doing something like that.. Good thing you called his brother to pick him up
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
Yea,you're right!i worried because he's drunk so i could never know what he might do..And ive got nothing to do with that cuz my mum was disapointed and i couldnt help him out.So i ring his older Brother to pick him up.
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
Yea,that's another thing i do worried about.His Dad doesnt want him to drink that much,.uugh.But to his Mum,it's okay to do so.
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@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
23 Jul 08
well.... i think you should talk to him when you are sober and if he still does not listen, call the police.... he can harm you...
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
oh,no.He's not that worse to call the police.It would be much trouble if i did.Well,everything's fine now,i bet he's still sleeping right now.:)
• India
23 Jul 08
i think you are jealous of your ex boy friend's new found girl friend. so you and your sister are spying on that poor fellow. what is does, where he goes, you are keeping an eye on. and if this is out of past compassion, then hats of to your compassion. you have managed to keep that love for him still alive. but i would rather advice not to poke your nose into his matter. i hope you got me. let him do what he wants. also tell your sister not to be your news channel in future.
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• India
25 Jul 08
so, a couple of sisters in with a couple of brothers. great thing. see, your sis and her bf will definitely try to make amends. if you and your ex are presently not into separate relations, get back and start afresh. life is too short to quarrel. make up and let me hear from you" they lived happily ever after". all the very best .
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
haha.yea..Couple of two..LOL.But my dad was against that thingy..i remember that time i argued with my dad bout it.I was explaining to him that it dont care if he cant allow me to have a relationship especially with the brother of my Sis's bf.Ugh..So then i dont want my sis to be involved with this so i decided to stop it.That's why we broke..
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
oh,i absolutely don't think of it as 'jealousy'.err.FYI me and my sister is not spying on him or whatever.It's just that she's been so closed with him for so many years and also with his family.His older bro is the present BF of my sister,that's it.So it came to the point that she knew almost everything.I cant picture out myself spying on a person who's actually my EX.im not that desperate. oh btw,yea,i got you.and i think he knew what he wants so i dont even have to let him do it.so yea,Thanks for that
@roysville (496)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
I guess you still care about him after all... you said you're still worried. I wonder why did he have to drink in front of your house? Is it to show you that he's drinking because of you? Is it for you to pity him or have sympathy on him? If that's the reason, I guess it's just right that you broke up with him. Besides, a man drinking way beyond his body can absorb, to the point of vomiting is a tell-tale sign of an irresponsible man. So, are you still worried?
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
Hey, In my case,yea.I do worried about him last night .and i dont know either why do i .hmm.oh.you're right.Other people might think he's irresponsible but he's not .I knew it myself.THANKS FOR THE RESPONSE.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
haha..kinda..Hmm..but i do appreciate your opinions as well.It really helps me to be more clear with this.THANKS.HAPPY EARNING!
• Philippines
23 Jul 08
But of course you know him better than any of us, our opinions are only based on what you wrote (or our interpretation of it.) So you still do care ;) I wish you well then. Hope things will be better for both you.
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• China
22 Jul 08
He drank because of you ?? If so, you'd better go to have a look. If not, just let go because you said he drank with his friends
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@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
22 Jul 08
Hell yeah,my sister told me so.SHe knew it cuz they've been close.you know we're really connected.His older bro is the present BF of my sister.Haha..funny isnt it?oh.He's really out of his mind!i wanted to but i cant..:(
• United States
22 Jul 08
The first thing that you need to know is that it's NOT your fault that he is acting this way! It is HIS choice to do whatever wants to his body and you have absolutely NOTHING to do with that! He is obviously acting out trying to get you to feel bad for him, or worry about him. So, if I were you, I would calmly confront him, and let him know that I am worried about him and his habits, yet nothing he can or will do will ever win me back, and if he's going to act that way, DON'T do it in front of you, because it's not going to work! I hope the best for you and good luck!