I really cannot stand with my TEnsion !!

July 22, 2008 9:24am CST
Iam a student in university sabah.Nowadays i really cannot understand what the lecturer teaching but all my coursemate know know what the lecturer teach.When i study the book i find that i really cannot understand it.It make me sad.So that i always like to go to play and dun want study.When after finish playing i really sad and dun know how to start to study ! I want to success in my study but it makes a lot of pressure to me.I really want to crazy and i always struggle in my heart.Please what should i do?Izzit you also have pressure?
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6 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Jul 08
it is something you may be thinking too much about. take adeep brreath. now just see what you are missing in understanding,. if possible take help from friends and teacher to understand whole things.
22 Jul 08
Hi sabahking, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling at your university, could you not ask your friends to help you out? ot why don't you tell your lecturer how you are feeling and that you don't understand the subject, I'm sure he will help you, just try and tell him you are so unhappy about it. I hope it will be o.k. soon. Tamara
@debjit (339)
• India
22 Jul 08
Don't get nervous buddy.. You are not the only person facing this kind of problem. You said you are getting pressurised by this situation. According to me your problem is nothing but the too much pressure. All people are not gifted with excellent talents, but the key of success is still in your hand. Don't avoid your studies when they are your barrier. Learn to fight them. You surely can do it, everybody can do it. Just prepare yourself for a fight and go for it. A person can give his best in a pressurized situation. Don't get sad, take it as a challenge and definately you can do it. Best of Luck. My wish will be with you.
• India
22 Jul 08
I had found myself in a similar situation when I first came into class 11. The subjects being taught were so radically different from those of the previous classes that I was literally at sea. I couldn't understand what was being taught and when I finally understood one scrap of it, the class would have advanced by quite a few chapters. It was really an agony. But I used to ask a lot of questions to my teachers, some of them satisfactorily answered, some of them not. But I think what helped me out more was that I learned to make certain assumptions. I knew that not all of my doubts can be quenched so I just assumed some facts of the chapters to be true and just built upon them through the rest. If there was a scrap of an idea which I couldn't understand, I just relegated it to memory and continued with the rest. That saved me a lot of futile brain exercise and I could finally keep up with my studies. I know how you're feeling at the moment. You're simultaneously not feeling up to attacking those indomitable subjects of yours and feeling guilty because of the precious time you're wasting. I suggest you to just charge ahead through the course. If you started getting some part of it done, you won't be feeling so bad about doing some other things. And also, search for a personal tutor who can pay all his attention to your problems and try to solve them. I benefitted from some good tutors also. Hope I've been of some help. Cheers.
@tnhzone (242)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 08
No worry,you are not the only one..what can you do?hmmmm,make yourself relax and study without tension but suitable stress to boost you in your study.Nothing is impossible unless you never try for it...
@moodygal (26)
• Malaysia
22 Jul 08
Don't try to compare yourself with others.This make you more tension.Be yourself.Plan your time and arrange it properly.Take your time.Try to get help from your friends or lecturers. You sure can.Just do it!!!Believe yourself.Although you wanna success, you must not forget your social life which is your friends.Good Luck to tou!!