can TWO of your husband ex's be his "GOOD FRIEND"!!???
@hate3rdparties (20)
Philippines
July 23, 2008 2:30am CST
Just recently, i found out that my husband was communicating with his ex gf. Actually two of his ex gf who happens to be also cousins... the first girl(Bit1) told my husband that she will always be there for my husband whenever he has problems... the other one was like (Bit2) i hope we remain good friends and that they should go out sometime.. can this really happen?! i mean should i accept this "friendship" thing going on?Anyway,we had an argument about it. I even read one text of Bit1 and she calls my husband "b" short for "baby". while Bit2 texted... "i Really damn miss u".. So is this how a good friendship starts? WHEEW!!
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@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
23 Jul 08
NOPE! This isn't good at all. Hate to sound bad but no other woman could call my partner baby or talk like that to him and I am not even married to him. But that also goes the other way. I tired to stay friends with my ex boyfriend and my current boyfriend hated it. I didn't see the big deal as maybe your husband does because I am dedicated to my current boyfriend (of 12 years) LOL . But then this past winter my ex found a girlfriend for the first time and is getting married next month. He called me only once and basically said I could stop the wedding if I wanted to, which I said I didn't. He hadn't called me (his friend) since and I am not invited to the wedding. Some "friend" I was. He only stayed in contact with a hope of being together while I thought that we were actually friends. Boy do I feel stupid and to top it off after all this time my boyfriend HATING that I still talked to my ex and had to tell him he was right that my ex only wanted to get back with me and wasn't really my friend. I don't know how your husband feels about his exes but sounds like the others want him back which doesn't make them "friends" so then what is the point.
