19 years old and virgin?

India
July 23, 2008 10:04am CST
Is it strange to not lose your virginity in teens?
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30 responses
• Romania
15 Feb 09
I don't think that is strange, i think that is a great thing to not lose your virginity in teens.
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@dacheong (35)
• Mauritius
22 Aug 08
no its not strange...it all depend on the environment you live and friend you have...that can influence you a lot!!!
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@frinces (433)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
From my experience, no. I was taught by my parents not to give in with the temptations especially if I already know its negative consequences.
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
23 Jul 08
No it is definitely not strange. If you are still a virgin at 19 years old you should be very proud of the fact. I am 47 years old now but when my husband and I got married I was 22 years old and still a virgin and was very proud. My husband has told me more than once since we have been married that he was proud I was a virgin. The Bible says to remain pure until you are married so keep up the good work!!
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
i am just curios about the verse..and i'm interested...I want to know the verse...what verse in the bible stating to remain pure until you are married...that is a good verse...i'm happy for your reply here..
@lloyd2002 (182)
13 Aug 08
I wasa virgin until I was 22
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• China
16 Feb 09
Not strange .It depends on the environment you live and your family.But personly not lose you virginity till u are a bride is wonderful .
• China
16 Feb 09
sorry .make a mistake. personally
• United States
15 Feb 09
its ur choice ... if u met someone u really love n care ,u can do it
@22angel22 (450)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Not at all.. Most say save it till marriage. I just say save it till you think you are ready. But I don't believe anyone in highschool should be having it. Thats a good way to get into trouble!
• China
15 Feb 09
it is actually not as strange as everybody like you to think it is,but i do think those can hold back and not giving thire virginity at thire teen would be consider have good self control.
• India
15 Feb 09
It depends from person to person. Different people have different perspectives. They have various different criteria to fulfill like - family background, religion, culture etc. It's a personal choice, there is no compulsion anywhere. The main thing to be noted is that do whatever you want to but there should be no regret about the decision that you make now at a later stage.
• Australia
21 Feb 09
This is an old thread, but I just wanted to add my two cents. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22. To be brutally honest, if anything I actually wish that I'd waited a bit longer for the right person.
@angelsmummy (1696)
13 Jul 09
When I was 19 I had my first daughter. I love in England and its virtually unheard of to save viginity until marriage. I think it wouldve been nice to do so but I now have a beautiful daughter and another on the way because of this and wouldnt change it for the world! I lost my virginty at 14 it was the night before my 15th birthday and I have regretted it ever since I gave into peer pressure!
@fheroan (615)
• Philippines
15 Jul 09
in my opinion, its not strange..here in our country Philippines..teens engage in relationships but they still not do yet the "do" thing..but when they turned 18..they feel that they're already adults so they do the "do" thing..lol.. and here being not a virgin in you teen life is very embarrassing...i remember one of our school mate who got pregnant..and everybody was like condemning her..and she was kicked out of the school..and can't study in any schools here in our country..so she went to USA...so, i suggest that, you shouldn't lose your virginity at such young age..
@puqimx (358)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 09
of course not.. in my country virginity is so important.. every girl try to protect it like thy protect they life until they have married with someone... i dont know in your country...
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
15 Feb 09
Personally I would think that it should be normal to still be a Virgin at 19, and something one should be Proud of as well, I know I was one when I was 19, and even if this is something unheard of most of the time anymore, I feel it is Best when a person chooses to save themselves for Marriage as then it is a lot more special for sure. In the Old days everyone waited and things were a lot better, so if this is your choice I would never let Peer pressure or anything stand in your way as well.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Nope not strange at all. I didn't lose my virginity in my teens, and wasn't foolish when I gave it to someone I truly cherish and am going to marry.
• United States
6 Dec 08
Nothing strange about it the longer one holds off the longer one can not have the worries of becomming pregnant as well as all the diseases transmitted. There was a teenager who had gotten in trouble for not telling his partners that he was HIV positive the other year. Truly sad....
• United States
31 Dec 08
No it's not wired i'm a 19 year old virgin to.
@raven66 (335)
• Canada
6 Dec 08
Not strange.. but if it were up to me I would wait until about 22 or even later. To many young people are doing it way to early nowadays.
• United States
11 Jan 09
No! I'm not a virgin I lost my virginity in my teens and I really wish that I didnt do that. Save yourself for someone special.