Do you think guys are careless sometimes? Or we girls are expecting too much?

@yenwie84 (1345)
Malaysia
July 23, 2008 10:42am CST
I was wondering which one could be true. There were many times I experienced that guys could be quite careless when they treated girls. Take for example,my boyfriend. There was once I expected him to bring me out for a good meal,but of course I just kept in heart and did not mention about it. I thought he understood me very well and knew what I wanted in my heart. But my hope was empty and I got nothing in the end. I was thinking was I expecting too much or was he careless? I was really confused. But there were times when girls did not want to speak out what they wanted and let the guys to guess. Sometimes it's hard to be guys too. What do you think? Do you agree with me? Please share,thanks.
2 responses
@Opal26 (17686)
• United States
23 Jul 08
I have the same problem with my boyfriend and I tell him exactly what I want. I don't know if they are careless or the just don't really care meaning they "could care less"! Meaning they do understand. It can be very frustrating. The point is they will get away with whatever we let them get away with. So I guess it's our on fault, I know in my case it is.
@mnflower (1301)
• United States
23 Jul 08
simply men are real people too just as women are and unless they are reminded or asked they have no clue what you want..they cannot read your mind..Being hurt is your own fault if you did not remind him was he working at the time is there something else that he is thinking about did he just simply forget and didn't mean it? He may know what you wanted at that time when the time come he may of had other issues he was dealing with...Remember we are only human not mind readers.