Thoughts on Successful but Unmarried Women

Philippines
July 24, 2008 3:21am CST
There are women who are very pretty, and i mean really beautiful, like they have sexy bodies, angelic face. They are also smart, very successful in their careers, very respected and also seem to have the right attitude in life. They are perfect in every way, women who seem to have it all. Yet they have no love life and they remain single. This puzzles me sometimes because it seems very unlikely that no man desires them...I guess the saying is true that the smarter a woman gets, the harder it is for her to find a man. Here in the Philippines, examples of women like these are Chin Chin Gutierrez, Carmi Martin, Korina Sanchez, etc. People will be glad to see them happily married but if they choose to remain single then i respect that and besides they seem to be complete and fulfilled even without a man. How about you? What are your thoughts on these women?
5 responses
• Malaysia
24 Jul 08
I think women who are successful in their jobs have the option of not relying on a man to make them feel happy and secure. These type of women are very strong characters and I really respect this kind of women. The reason why they might not get married is maybe because it's hard to find a guy who have a lesser ego than her. Most men have egos and successful women have them too.So that's the problem I think.
@xiannv (23)
• China
29 Jul 08
yes ,l agree with you .everyone has the right to follow their dream,to be successful ,maybe the person will cost more energe and time .snd they cant spare time to date ,maybe they dont find the person they like .because they are successful .it is not easy to match them .that is the problem.sometimes the men dont like the strong women just prove the person have no ability to love them .it doesnt matter .belive the right is not far !!
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
I don't see anything wrong with smart women who has no relationships. I even have a big respect on them cause most of the time these women prioritize thier family and even supports thier siblings as well. I even have a cousin who were very successful but does ramian single and we all respect her decision on that matter. Maybe its really a matter of perspective. Its really nice to see them happy but who are we to know if being married will give them the happiness. They might be happy now, and that keeps them from staying out of relationship perhaps.
• India
24 Jul 08
Ah I'll be one someday.. Successful and a single mother. :)
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
They are contented and happy with their life. A man missing in a woman's life is normal. Some women doesn't like commitment that's why they stay single.
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
24 Jul 08
I do not think that is true, I am very smart and I had all the men I wanted. I think is a question of ability. Some women have the ability to get men like me, and some don't, very simple!