my fantasy ends today...

Philippines
July 24, 2008 1:42pm CST
another heart break for me..i thought there is special something going on between me and this guy..but thinsg fell apart just a couple of minutes ago..it was shatterred by the post he made in his profile saying, "you and i forever!!062808...it is very clear the girl he is talking about is me...i dont remmber anythign about the date...im not sure if that was the day he gave me a visit..but even though that was the date, i dont remmber anything especial...so it is not me!!! my heart aches now, i dont even know what to say..well i am not mad at him for it is not his fault that i have fallen for him, in the first place he didnt asked me to fall for him.. i feel like really crying...the best thing will be to move on and accept things are not meant to be..so long...
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16 responses
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
It's sad to know things like these. Some things happen for a reason. We may not know why it happened right now but eventually as time passes by, you'll realize why it happened. Sometimes, God let us to meet few wrong person for us to be thankful when we meet the right one. Sometimes, bad things happen and you can't do anything about it, so why worry. Just move on and things will be all right. Loving is such a wonderful feeling. But along that wonderful feeling are sacrifices, heartaches, break ups...that's all part of it. It's how we cope up with those negative things that matter. Cheer up!
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
i cant say anything more than yes correct...he is the one i keep on telling to you almost everyday..
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
thnks that is appreciated...yeah i will be fine..
@sivanj (1263)
• India
25 Jul 08
thats a great word. people u face everyday make u become stronger and better to face the tomorrow better. but it is easily said than done. i wish god gives u the mental strength to face the situation
@skmnaidu (14)
• India
25 Jul 08
dont worry thing will start turning for you hence Enjoy life the way it is to you
• India
4 Aug 08
I like the why you responded to the life ahead, cant say wht may happen next. What ever happens, its for our own good. " If we loose some thing today, there is better n best thing stored for us tomorrow " This cote i heard it some where, i don't know. But, it worked for me with my fiance. Keep your fingers crossed Kali
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
hmmm..yeah i think the same way too..well we do get along just fine lately...but i dont expect much this time and i dont even close doors on others...thnks
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah..enjoy what life has to offer...i still can live with or without him hehehe...thnks..and welcome to mylot..
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Well if I may say it in a idiomatic expression... YOu are falling in love but one is catching you. Or maybe, that simple date is not special to you but it is to him. Anyway, it hard to have this kind of feeling especially if the person is unconscious that you are hurting by him. Your right just move on and think the past as a good memories.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
oh I got it wrong.. "you are FALLING in love and No one is there to CATCH you"
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
oh thnks fro the repost i was buffled on that at first...lols yeah it looks like it..the thing is i think he knows what i feel for him...we usually talks about it...hmm i remmber us talking about it..
25 Jul 08
Are you sure that it isn't you he means? I wouldn't write it off till you speak to him. Especially if he says he doesn't have a girlfriend. The whole thing could just be a misunderstanding. If not then I am very sorry but don't worry. There will be more fun just around the corner, he might not be 'the one' after all. Better to find out now than later when you are lovers.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
hmmm i cant find the courage to ask if who he meant with his post...maybe once he visit me maybe later i will tease him on that..so it will appear as a joke...i will try it later...
• Japan
25 Jul 08
I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how you feel because I was once in that kind of situation before. God let it happened because He has a good reason for that and I'm sure He has another better plan for both of you. Life must go on, you're still young, cheer up. It 's not the end of the world, you can still do a lot of things, you will meet a better person. Keep going! Don't forget to smile!
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah maybe i am too for him lols...yeah there are reasons that i may now know now but certainly i will in the future...thnks..
@valeria1 (2721)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Come on is that you super one? NO no no! One thing only you are too smart for this bull, men is in every corner, I garantee to you is his loss not yours. Move on!
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
hehehe...smart people have not so smart heart lols...thanks for having time to respond.. im okay thnks...i can move on there are lot of things that had happened to me and this thing will not hinder me in any way...thnks
@subha12 (18441)
• India
25 Jul 08
its very sad to know taht. may be it haopened for a reason. who can say, later it could have given you much pain? i know uits easier to say, but it happens. life is like that only. may be he was not worth of you.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
it is acceptable that once we feel hurt we dont understand much the reason but sooner or later we will...everything starts with acceptance..thnks
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Well I am at a lost what is the relationship you have with him? Is he courting you? It is really difficult to assume unless you make it clear to him what his intentions are with you. I think you should have made it clear with him what the relationship is. Maybe you could just ask who might be the girl he was referring by that phrase. It might be referring to you all along and you don't need to despair at all. So don't lose hope as of yet just make it clear as the phrase still has no meaning yet to me if I would assess your that situation.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
hmmm we are dating that is according to him..he even confirmed that not just once...we visit once in a while..we talk almost everyday.. we are more than friends not lovers..we are just dating..
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
I'm sorry for you. I know how it feels to realized that the one you fall in love with is in love with another girl. Let him go. Someday the right one will come along. Good luck.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah someday someone, if he is not that guy well i know i will still be happy whoever that is..thnks
@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
You have got a good attitude there girl, cheers to you. yeah, that is so heart breaking but it's not the end of the wolrd. cry if you feel like it, it will help lessen the burden you feel. but you have got to movoe on, that is a good idea. life goes on and i am sure there is someone out there who is meant just for you. liife is full of trials and we just to keep on trying.....god bless!
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
oh thnks for the compliment...well the best and the least i can do is to face it and accept that things will not always fall to where we would like it to be..that is life...and we have to live with it..
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
25 Jul 08
If you are not sure that it was you or not, then why are you so bothered? Until he tells you so you can still hope that there is a chance between the two of you. There may not be something that happened on the date in the guys profile but it could mean a lot of things, maybe it was the date he learned that he has a thing for you or the day he realized he loves you. Don't be hard on yourself. Just let nature take its course, if you are meant to be, you will end up together. But don't expect too much. Keep your options open, there are a lot of men around.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
hmmm...yesterday i asked him if he have a gf he said that he is not committed to anybody...well i do that keeping my options open, and yeah dont expect anything it might hurt me real bad...heheh.thnks
@avalanzce (124)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
We may know things or learn things came from what you have experienced. When this thing happen, try to cope up and still be his friend. Don't avoid or even hate him, he is still good from what he has been doing since he became your friend. You're are still in safe after you've noticed something from your friend and this will not get you more complicated. You are too early to move on so don't let go of it, if you dont...things would getting even worse. Try to move on bit by bit and don't try to push it hard, I know you can. We are here as our shoulders been stayed together for you to lean on. Just go girl, good things would come afterwards.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah i really appreciate you guys,,,thnks much.. he is still a wonderful guy and we have a wodnerful memories together.. thnks for the concern...thnka a lot
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
i already experience that too.. falling for someone you thinks have the same feelings for you then ending up, misunderstanding him is one of the world worsest feeling i have experience. its like for this moment you are in a cloud nine feeling but after that moment you end up, falling and hitting the ground so hard that you couldn't even get up on your feet again and walk chin up, because you flew so high and didn't notice that you wings are starting to break. being inlove is just another thing but being love by the one you love speaks about everyhting, right???what i did after that fall,? move on. find thingd that can help you move on, and time heals, maybe no soon but eventually it will.
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah exactly , cloud 9 for a moment then suddenly everything shuttered and you will wonder what happened ayt? gee thnks.. but i am okay now..thnks...
25 Jul 08
Girl, it's his loss right? And as the saying goes, there are lots of fish in the sea. And I believe we have lots of soulmates, not just one. If we only had one soulmate, what happens if they live halfway across the world? The chances of us meeting them are very slim. There are lots of people out there for everyone, and you will find one, I promise. I hope you feel better, I've been there before, and I am here if you need to talk!
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
thnk you so much you are a sweety.. yeah there are lots of guys out there... yeah after all these posts and support from you people i feel really better..
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
24 Jul 08
My heart aches for you. I know how it feels to have a broken heart. But these things do happen to us from time to time, we never really do know when it will be true love or not, but we can not let us get us down when things go wrong. Everyone we meet will not be the right one for us, but we will never know unless we do take a chance on love.The right one will come alone for you.
• Philippines
24 Jul 08
thank you so much for the encouragement i feel bit better now...thank you..
• United States
25 Jul 08
I'm really sorry that things turned out so bad... If you really like this person why don't you try getting back with him.. If you really thought something was special between you guys than it was meant to be.. I would try to ask hm to get ack together.. I think you guys should be together and i don't even know you..It seems as though there was something really special between you to if you really feel like crying.. I would try to get back with the guy.. Ask him what went wrong and ask him does he want you back and if he does than get back with him..Don't just gve up like that if you really want to be with this guy and you really thought that there was something special work to get is back.. I really that that you should try to get this guy back.. If he really mean thats much to you that you would have no problem ith what i am telling you to do. Come one you know you want too..
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
right after i read your response and the other guys that suggest to talk it out with him i txted him and ask him if he has a gf and he says none...well i dont know..he will be coming i think later so i wonder if we will talk about it or not...hope we do.. thnks