what's really going on?

Philippines
July 25, 2008 12:13am CST
ok, there's this man who happened to get my attention because of his being aloof to people especially 'women', because i think he's a nice guy because he's a friend of my boss..all i know is everytime he pass by, i can't help but look at him and wonder why he's that aloof.. until one time, when he's in his usual way of 'being aloof' and me looking at him and still wondering, he suddenly look at me, and i was shocked, and don't know what kind of escapegoat i'm going to do, well i didn't see what is his reaction about me freaking like that.. but after that incident, whenever we are in the same place, in the same occasion, in the same meeting, in the same outdoor 'adventure' - i notice that he keeps on looking on my direction, or maybe looking at me, i don't know, he's not that type who just look at somebody, especially women, with that kind of look, and i don't know what's happening.. i even catch his eyes when i tried to look at him, and that makes me think that, he's really looking at me!!.. still, my question about his being aloof was not yet answered... am i paranoid? what do you think is happening? what's going on?..do you think i should continue my quest in knowing his 'aloof' thing?.. or is it me who needs to become aloof?..and why in the first place did wonder of him being aloof like i care that much?..
1 response
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
to satisfy and finally end your curiosity, you should stand up and ask him that. i mean, you can ask him, "why are you looking at me?"... you can eventually tell him what's bothering you and in the end open up! i hope. but if i were in your situation, i would probably had asked him so i can stop looking and wonder! "What the heck is wrong with him?" or "there must be something wrong with me!"...
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
yeah, i think i should do that.. but i don't know what kind of approach i'd do.. because he's also a boss, i wonder how will i ask him about that..
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
for starters, ask him a work-related question or problem? ask him, "sir, i hope you wouldn't mind but can i ask you a personal questions?"... then ask him... he would probably brush it off or answer you indirectly but at least you have let it out of your system. it would probably make him intrigue instead for someone to approach him and ask him regarding that! hahaha! :)) that would be something...
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
For starter, you can ask him a work-related question... and then ask him, "sir, i hope you won't mind but can i ask you a personal question?"... then ask him... he may brush it off or answer you indirectly but at least you have let it out of your system. he'll probably be the one intrigued by you for asking a question... that would be something!