can somebody buy your love?

i have been through 2 mariages for LOVE, now I would like to try the money part for a while, if the person was at least decent to look at, and had a nice personality, and he truly loved me, yes I would try it, who knows love could be there and you just don't see if. Don't we all dream of finding someone that can give us everything. Sometimes I think we get more tied up on looks than a person that could really do something for us in life, to make it easy for us not to have to struggle. I would give anything to have my dreams come true.

Hi mylnemnad, I was in this situation already and this guy would just buy me stuff and get people to bring it for me at my workplace and I would have to call him up and tell him to take it back, I don't want it and he would refuse to take it back and I would proceed to tell him that I would give it away or trash it and he would say, it's yours...do as you like. I did not like him in a boyfriend/girlfriend type way but we were friends before all this started. I mean most girls would be delighted. All my co-workers were jealous of me and i was simply thinking "gosh how do i get rid of this guy?!" It finally came to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I got my dad to intervene. It did not stop him right away, the guy actually went out and bought a car for me! Thinking it may impress me and my dad but it did not. He may be rich but i wouldn't have been happy with him. It was all about money, not the thing that really matters, love... I agree we all need money to survive, but I have been in situations where I had everything I felt I needed and wanted at the time (I'm not talking rich but just being a bit more fortunate than others) yet I was not happy because all the people I loved and who I know loves me, were very far away. I am lucky to have now found someone who I know is "the one!" He makes me so happy and he may not be rich but he isn't very poor either, but he knows what matters, I do want to have a comfortable life in the future and I am confident that I can build that for myself as long as I have the love to keep me happy.

That is impossible-love is so precious that you couldnt possbly buy it-any one peddling money for love is a scammer-just ignore him or her-love hits you like thunder and true love is free!

No way. I'd rather earn my own money and be with a bankrupt man I truly love..

I don't know if a woman could BUY my love, but if she has enough cash, she could rent it for an hour or two...LOL

anyhoo, if you don't like the person's personality doesn't mean you didn't feel anything for that person. if you felt something then why not give it a try, but if giving it a try just because of the material things you wanted to have so your dreams may come true then i would say, it's not worth the time spending. (or wasting the time probably is the best) and i believe there's no love involve in this situation but only for tangible things. yet, there are circumstances that would arise in a certain time that would force you to cling on it because of a need, but that's another story.