July 26, 2008 12:01am CST
Many people have this habbit that they need everything. Whatever in the world they see, they need it. Is this a problem, or is it normal? I mean, literally everything she sees she thinks she needs it. This way she has stacked so many things in her home but her obsession is not yet done. She wants more and more everyday. please suggest measures to help her out???
26 Jul 08
hi, i don't recognize it as a problem. but i haven't catch your problem, she want means.. if she need something and she try for it herself then i think it is good for her. but if she need something and she depends on her parents or friends or someone else, then there is a big problem.. i am also want every thing, but i think there is a particular time to do any thing in this world. i want to travel all over world but i can do it now so i have to try for it. do your work yourself and make possible your needs.. all the best!!! and good day.
27 Jul 08
She does not want the genuine things. If someone is buying a pair of denim, she needs it too. If I get a Television at my place then she will keep nagging about the same. Her needs are influenced by her friends and relatives. Everybody wants things in life but she does not need anything until she sees other people buying it. This is her problem. I hope its clear now. Thanks for the insight.
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26 Jul 08
Was she like this growing up where she always got what she wanted? for if that's the case then that could be her problem and she feels what ever she see's now she has to have it when that's not the cse she dosn't. Some people are very hard to break of this habit and the only one that is going to be able to break it is herself by saying she dosn't need all that stuff and only get things she needs. Try talking to her asking if everything she is getting is an absolute necessity. If she says yes try to explain to her that no it's not it's just stuff she wants and try to explain the differences between the two to her and let her then decied if she is going to change. I wish you the best of luck helping your friend out in this situation.
27 Jul 08
No while she was brought up, she was in a very small town. That is the reason she has not seen anything in life. But after her marriage, she has moved to a town and has a huge money to spend. Thats why she wants everything she sees. When asked she always behaves as if she does not have anything, and that is the reason she is buying out of necessity. I hope she gets back on track before she commits blunders.