Do you think it is time for us to move out???

You do realize if you move it won't be as easy, right. A lot of times it take two in a family to work. You might have to get a job. Or cut back, after you move. So think about that also. You know you don't need anyone's opinions on this subject, its time to go.

It's past time. There's no question, things will be much easier (and fun) when you're on your own. That may be some of his tension. I would not be in a good mood coming home to a group.

Do you have the money - deposit, 1str months rent, etc to move out? If so, start looking int he paper. If ya'll live near the base, there is usually a housing office that can give you a list of "military approved" housing.

It is always hard when two families live under the same roof. It doesn't matter if there are kids involved. You need to get your own place. You will have privacy and it is past the time that you moved out. You will be able to enjoy each other more with your own place also.

First of all what are you doing married if you can't afford a place of your own, I assume that is why you are living with another couple, if I am wrong correct me. Yes I think you should move out, when the others fight they must one must think that it is you all that cause it by fighting amoungs yourselves till it caused them to fight. Sometimes we share homes with other till we can get on our feet and get our own place, but marriage is something you take on when you are able to except responsibity for all that comes with it. Believe me Icome from the old days and I married a man that decided he didn't like working and we must of lived with everyone we knew it don't work, no matter how good of friends we have, it always is someone else's home and we tend to get in the way, I would get out as soon as I could, it will be a lot more peaceful.

whats the old saying two women in the house don't work,or is that kitchen lol. I think living with other people no matter how close you can never really relax to be yourselves or to do as you please,it's time to move into your own home to enjoy and leave them to enjoy theirs .

Yes, I think the time comes when you need to find your own place, and build a life for yourselves which is independent of others. You need your own space and your own private time, as do your friends. So, go ahead... it's time to start house-hunting. Have fun, and Brightest Blessings.

Yes I think it's a good idea that you and your husband think about getting a place of your own. Just think you both would have your own privacy and no one would invade that. You wouldn't have to listen to the arguements of others wich wouldn't cause you guys to get stressed and snap at one another just cause the others do it. Seriously consider it for you both would be much happier I wish you both the best of luck and take care.

happy house hunting is all i can say.hehehe!it comes with great responsibility but for sure it will better for you guys to have a place of your own. good luck,

I would definetly think its time to move out. I never liked staying with other people any longer then I had to. I'm curious though, when one couple makes up after they were mad at each other, does the other one get to make up too? Hugs, Tianna

Well you can still make a great foursome lol. Yeah i think three months is long enough for you to still be sort of attached to some other people, the best thing would be to move out to some lonely place where you can keep both the sad and great moments to yourselves.

Yup, it's always better to have your own place - there's more privacy. I find it difficult to live with other people (not family members) on a long term basis. You have to watch your words and actions; and some people are not that considerate about using your things or invading your space!

This is a very complicated question. Everything depends on how financially sound you and your hubby are. I would suggest that the both of you take a financial management class to help get on a budget to prevent problems in the future. My husband and I never expected it to be this hard when we moved together. I managed to take care of all my bills when I was on my own with my daughter, and he did pretty well by himself also. But, together....with all the bills, mishaps, expectancies, and military business we have too many times where we get out of sync. Then there's the other couple who may be concerned of what they will do without that extra income and assistance that they will be missing when you are gone. I'm sure you want to stay on good terms with them, even after you leave. Good luck with everything and make sure you pray!

Yes i think you should move out and get your own place. That way you will get more privacy and you will get to do your own things.

I think peace is all you badly need, if stayng the way you are doing right now is not giving you any peace, then just move out and start a new life fo yourselves

When I was much younger and married, we also lived with another couple. It lasted probably about 3 months. We were very good friends and at first it was all fine but it didn't take long before we began having little disagreements about silly things...just differences in lifestyles. We moved on and it actually salvaged our friendship with that couple. It's hard to live with others. I think you should be saving for your own place. It will make your marriage stronger and your friendship with the couple stronger as well.

pixie yes its past time when both of you get mad at your spouses, get out on your own and you probably will get mad at your hubby much less often as you wont have other people getting in your face like that.newly weds need time to them selves not company that is live in like that. you will have lots more fun alone together.

I think so, so you can have the privacy but you should talk to your husband regarding this.

hi, you have to go out, it'll help for sure also your marriage, but is not said that this help will be good, can be that living alone will make your problem coming out more als now they do, and anyway it'll be good for the probleme that yoou have now Nun

you must get your own house now with your husband.