What if your GIRLFRIEND cheated on you, came out and told you, what would you do
By nick14
@nick14 (116)
United States
July 27, 2008 4:54am CST
I personally have never had this happen to me; however my friend is in this situation and is a little confused. I told him that she must love him if she confessed, but he isn't having it. He is mad and wants revenge. I told him that everyone deserves a second chance especially if she came clean about it. I would want him to make his own choose, though I would like to know what most people do about this. Not something people bring up in conversation alot, am I crazy for giving him that advice.
2 responses
@nick14 (116)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Were of course not stupid, this girl isn't a slXt or anything like that. Of course if cheating is in the girls history than thats a whole new thing. This would have to be a person who has never cheated or did anthing like this before. You do raise a good point about how long she keep it a secret, I guess that would be a good question to ask. Thanks for comment
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Lets face it, she cheated on him. Can he really ever trust her again? Granted, she fessed up, but was it a voluntary confession? Was he having his doubts already and pressed enough for this to come out? How heartbroken was she about it really?
Those are the questions that have to be asked. Somebody who cheated is likely to do it again. Very few are actually truly heartbroken about it and will never ever do it again. Obviously for this to have happened something is wrong with the relationship in the first place. Maybe it's time to take stock and a break-up might be a wise thing to do.
I do realize my response is a bit late since you posted this several months ago. However, I do hope he broke up with her. Something tells me that the relationship isn't as solid as it should be and your friend already had doubts about her commitment to him.
