If anger fills me how could I say that I still love her?

New Zealand
July 27, 2008 5:15am CST
I love her... I know I do... but I'm also too hurt... that's why I end up hurting her more... I rarely see anymore... just once or twice but when I do it seems that I end up showing her how angry I am within... what should I do?
4 responses
@shooie (4984)
• United States
27 Jul 08
If you rarely see her anymore maybe you need to rething the relationship all together. You are probably anfry because you don't see much of her and well if you love her this is probably why. Maybe you two need to sit down and talk and rethink the relationship and see if you can move forward or if it is time to walk away from it.
• New Zealand
27 Jul 08
well the problem is it's over between the two of us... it's been five months since we broke up... so do you think it might be because I haven't move on yet or can you see any other reason?
@shooie (4984)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Sometimes you can't help who your heart falls in love with. Sounds like your Ex has moved on and you haven't and well yes that could cause some friction between you two when you see each other from time to time. You probably are still wanting more in your heart and your ex doesn't. You said you still see the ex ever so often what you need to do is either try to get over the ex and still be friends or not see them at all and move on in life look for another love.
@rafiu1 (20)
• Nigeria
27 Jul 08
You should learn to forgive and also learn to forget the past especially the negative one
• New Zealand
27 Jul 08
I'll try but she's hurt me so much... and up to now I'm still hurting... I thought things would be better since we rarely see each other but it seems to have no difference at all...
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
Hi! I think whatever the cause of your anger you must learn to forgive. By forgiving you will eventually forget about your anger. Don't think about the reasons why or what provoked your anger to her but rather think about the past when you were still both ok with each other. Forgive and forget is the key. Hope that helps. Ciao!
• New Zealand
27 Jul 08
I'll try thanks...
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
we are having the same problem though the only difference is that i'm still with the one i love, we never broke up even if she cause me so much pain.. everytime i remembers the the things she did to me in the past.. me too needed advice..