do you think money can buy confidence?

China
July 27, 2008 7:53am CST
whenever i buy new clothes,i feel very confident when i wear them,then i talk to myself,do money buy confidence for me?i am puzzled.
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@karjyo (830)
• India
27 Jul 08
No, actually you already have the the confidence that you can carry off these clothes very well. This confidence is only reflected out when you wear your new clothes.
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• China
27 Jul 08
thanks,i see..
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@metschica25 (5405)
• United States
27 Jul 08
Hi , I really like your post that you started here . You know I think money does have a little power to do that as well . I myself feel so much better when I am in a new outfit with a sexy smelling perfume . Also , with the right hair cut you can feel like a millon bucks . Buying things ,and feeling beautiful can make ya feel better about yourself. Most times you need money for items.
• China
27 Jul 08
yes,money really is a tool for people to step onto the way of confidence,the land of abundance. thank you for posting ,have a nice day.
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• United States
27 Jul 08
yes , it is a great tool Have a great day too !!
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@bowtieguy (5924)
• United States
2 Aug 08
I don't know about everyone else but I know I feel comfedant Whne I ma looking my best. The best is when I have a new outfit to wear to the office, and I get to show it off to everyne there.
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• China
2 Aug 08
as the old saying goes,"everyone wants to be more beautiful."
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@chiyosan (30194)
• Philippines
27 Jul 08
maybe.. money has been over used, misused too many times...
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• China
27 Jul 08
yeah,money both has advantages and disadvantages. have a nice day
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@snakequeen (1300)
• India
5 Aug 08
Without money you could not have bought the new clothes and hence one can say money indirectly helps one's confidence level go up! It is not always truse. It is your tolerence level that either keep your confidence going and make you happy! Beyond that level, it is money only. For one who is in need of money, it definitely buys confidence if it arrives. For those who are already wealthy, it is just another thing. Anyhow, money is a necessary evil!
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• China
6 Aug 08
great comment.
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• India
6 Aug 08
Hey! Thanks for the B/R! I am happy!
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@alpha7 (1910)
• France
28 Jul 08
Yes ,money can buy confidence,a life without money is not a good one.It might not be the riches of this world, but atleast be comfortable.I mean if you get into a public transport for example without having the money to pay,you can never be confident,been that you don't know if a controller will come to ask you your ticket,but if you bought one before entering,you will be confident,whoever comes beside you is not your problem.
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• China
2 Aug 08
money is the preparation step to a qualified life in this money-oriented society.
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@alpha7 (1910)
• France
15 Aug 08
Hhhmmmmmmm good,we must work hard to have it then,atleast the little that can make one comfortable!
• China
8 Aug 08
yes!i do think so.but money just an assistant.the key is your mind.with money you can buy good clothes,jewelries and so on to make you diffrent with others.it's a good way to make you confident.i try this method on my girlfriend.and it works.but even you have money,if you don't know how to bright yourself or you are self-humiliation.the money is just money.
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• China
8 Aug 08
yes,it is just a tool to help us confident,we cant totally depend on it. take care.
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@mari123 (1862)
• China
8 Aug 08
Money can't buy confidence,have more money you can buy many thing you want,but it cann't buy everything and friends
• China
8 Aug 08
yes, money is not everything,many things r more precious than money and we cant measure them by wealth.
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
4 Aug 08
It can but it shouldn't be. It should come from within like a sense of fulfillment and most of all a feeling of being HELPED by the one above which is GOD!
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• China
5 Aug 08
actually we are the masterpiece of our own life.
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@rocker21 (2717)
• India
4 Aug 08
You already have a flow of confidence money and all these stuffs are just a way to express them out.
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• China
4 Aug 08
thx very much for helping me find my confidence. tske care.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
2 Aug 08
Good afternoon, my friend,chenmeiyi,i think money can convert something into the confidence.As you said, when you buy the new clothes by money and waer it, you will be feel confident.So we think money make you confident.But This is difficult to answer.I think many people think it is sure.But I think there are still some other people disafree with this opinion.Money can buy different things on different people.I think we should consider this question from two sides.For me, i don't thin money can buy everthing,for instance,happiness,confidence.willpower.etc. I judge things following my own concept and view,never depend on money.My confidence will be activated by myself,inside spirit, not rely on the money. In any way, thanks for your share.happy mylotting. good luck.
• China
2 Aug 08
yeah,i have to say good evening to u. what u said really makes sense,maybe now i am not mature or confident enough,so i still need the tool of money to boost myself. take care,thx.
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Yes, i thinks it's true for others. But for me no matter how i wear I'm always confident of my self.
• China
28 Jul 08
congratulations,you are in such good condition,keep it.
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@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
28 Jul 08
Well To some extent Yes if u have money in ur pocket u r compartively confident, but no doubt personality, grooming, upbringing, and education helps a lot Take care
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• China
28 Jul 08
yeah,confidence depends on many other factors,it is not just about money.
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@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
28 Jul 08
Money can't buy confidence,as you said,you brought a new clothe and you are confident when you wear it,you get a bad mind,confidence is come out from your heart,it means you had had confidence yet,so the confidence which you said is not from money.
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• China
28 Jul 08
yes ,you are right,maybe i think i am still not confident enough thus i need physical appearance to strenghten my confidence.anyway,i will make great efforts to build up my confindece ,happy mylotting.
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• Canada
28 Jul 08
I do not think that money can buy confidence. All money an do is buy a false sense of security. What are people going to do when the money runs out? Real conidence can only exist in people who will live good lives regardless of finances.
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• China
28 Jul 08
yes,we should ask ourself if money runs out,what should we do? true confidence should lie in the deepth of our hearts even if we are not so rich.
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@cripfemme (7713)
• United States
8 Aug 08
Money doesn't buy confidence, but having new clothes which look really good on you can improve your confidence, which will make you present yourself better.
@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
8 Aug 08
Ohh first of all congrats for such a nice topic...it touched my heart and soul as well.....in my opinion to be confident we need lot of other factors as well like good health ,good knowledge,good family,good friends ,good targets to achieve including money and many more . But yes in my opinion...among all these factors two factors r most imporant ...which adds to your confidence and that r none else but "MONEY AND HEALTH " . So , I end my reply by saying tha Money and Health r key or major factor that adds to your confidence level. Thanku Ganesh
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
17 Aug 08
There are some things which can bring you confidence. If you have money you can get them and enhance you confidence. And money itself also can enhance your confidence. Rank, money, beauty are all quite magic and they can change you a lot, including the confidence.
• China
17 Aug 08
yes,at least money can give me confidence financially.take care.
• China
17 Aug 08
confidence is a feel come from you heart,if you feel confident,no matter what you have wore,i think.