Are old good relationships worth re-kindling?

@marina321 (4556)
July 27, 2008 2:00pm CST
If you hadn't seen someone you had a relationship with many months or years ago, and you previously had a good relationship with them but the timing wasn't right for either one of you or you grew apart due to location or distance, work or other but you meet and are now both single.. Would it be worth re-kindling the relationship with them? Would you remain good friends or would you try to win them back and pick up where you left off?
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bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
27 Jul 08
being a good relationship before, i think i'd be friends for a while and see if it became something more. would probably hope it to become something more.
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marina321
@marina321 (4556)
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27 Jul 08
Haha, yeah.. hoping it becomes something definitely helps remain good friends
zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 08
Absence make the heart grow fonder! Friendship remains but to rekindle an old flame is possible but not advisable as both are committed and would not like breaking hearts of both spouses. Let friendship stay as it is.
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marina321
@marina321 (4556)
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27 Jul 08
I should have mentionned no spouses in picture either - if one is single!
Opal26
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Hmmm...I tried this 2 years ago. It was someone who I had a relationship with about 20 years ago. It wasn't good then and it wasn't good this time. Some things should stay buried. But, you never know until you try. If you don't try then you will always be wondering. I believe that it is possible that sometimes things could work out for the best. In my case at least with this relationship it didn't, but I'm not sorry that I gave it a shot.
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