Its time to let go

@msedge (4012)
United States
July 27, 2008 6:08pm CST
Are you harboring junk in your heart that may have wounded you for years. Are you holding things against someone from years ago. Does it seem like you don't have room in your heart to forgive?Some of us may have bitterness in our hearts over someone.No matter how we try to forgive and forget but the pain and hatred still in our heart.How can we truly forgive someone?
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3 responses
• United States
28 Jul 08
I am pretty good at forgiving people. I usually don't hold grudges. But there was one person i could not forgive and nor will i ever forget what he did to me. So i guess it depends on what the person did if someone can truly forgive them.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
2 Aug 08
It happen to me too.There are people that hurt me so much that until now i can never forgive them.I tried but just so much pain they did to me that still hurting me.
• United States
27 Jul 08
I think you can only forgive someone until you have forgiven yourself. I know that probably doesn't make sense, but it does in my head. My boyfriend of 3 years, about a year ago now broke up with me. I never saw it coming and I honestly never thought I would forgive him. He came back to me a few months later and told me what an idiot he was for leaving and it was the worst decision in his life. It took me probably 4 or 5 months to finally forgive him for hurting me so much and let him back into my heart. Our relationship is stronger than ever now and I am so happy I finally found it in me to forgive him.
@msedge (4012)
• United States
2 Aug 08
Yes we must forgive ourselves forst before forgiving others.That way there will be no hatred in out heart.
@besthope44 (12142)
• India
29 Aug 10
Forgiveness project one as a god..he is equal to god!Well not our hurt, but the other one who we forgived. Just a simple but tough logic..dont expect anything..you can easily forgive any one for their mistakes.