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Honestly I usually let it go in one ear and out the other but sometimes i dont jsut depends on what was said really i guess you could say. However any remark made negatively about my kids that i dont let go and i will defend them until the other person finally shuts up and walks away. My mom used to tell me it takes a bigger person to walk away than to stand there and fight with someone but yes i agree to that however for on certain situations i agree to that not all.

i personally welcome criticisms. particularly those that are constructive and will make me learn something. although there are criticisms that aim to destroy or dampen my spirit, i still take them and see why the person said or gave that to me. s/he must have seen something in me to say those things. i like contructive ones, they make me better and challenge me to improve.

I never let it go through one ear and out the other,i consider i must face to it.Escaping is not good method.I will keep a clear brain,and think about it carefully,then i do my best to make a right decide,however,calmness is the first thing when you deal with anything.

IM the type of person that would let it go in one ear and out the other. I just think that if its not good dont tell me and just keep your comments to your self. I really don't hold grudges either,I think im really laid back.