first child

Philippines
July 27, 2008 11:46pm CST
i'm just so psyched to be a mom... i'll be having a baby on november, and i can just find myself everynight thinking of my baby's future...i know it can't be perfect, but we all know mothers want the best for their baby. i'm scared. i might not be a good mother to my child...there are lots of what if's bugging me...
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• United States
28 Jul 08
Well i can still say i am still a newbie at the mother situation, I have a daughter that is 7 months and I could honestly say i was like you in some sort, worrying, researching, and organizing for everything I needed to be there. Well the advice i would love to give you is relax and once your child is here you will know exactly what to do, your mother instincts will kick in. Every child is different so you never know what kind of baby you will have. There are alot of things that are good to get together before you have the baby bc you do not want to waste your time at the store the first months all you will want to do is enjoy your baby because they grow so fast. I wish you all the luck and I am sure you will be a great mother.
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
THanks adeliza.. =) your message was really inspiring =)
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• United States
11 Aug 08
You are welcome and trust me you will be great!