No body wants to hear your SAD story...

India
July 28, 2008 1:51am CST
That's the latest lesson I've learned from life .. just no boy wants to listen to your SAD story!! Earlier I thought that it's good and very honest of me to share my tears and sadness with others..(friends and family basically) It doesn't mean that I brag about my oh so sad life.. Instead just remembering your flaws and failures will just make your more depressed and sad!!! I use to tell every one that I am not doing good in my studies, I am living such a lonely life and nobody cares for me and I have no best friends and many more stuffs like that. It actually made my face dull and sick.. I always had a bad mood just never enjoyed anything with me and rather I just wanted to stay alone.. Now as a better person I need to smile more and have fun more. I thought I was serious person ..but I just wasted much of my time being serious... Now I need to loos it a bit and have fun .. Spread smiles to people and live happily. And BE [/b]careless[b]!!! Life is just too short for being serious. Remember do not forget [/b] living[b]!!! :)
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poohgal
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
2 Aug 08
Good to see that you are trying to think positive and happy now. The first step is always the hardest. However, once you managed to step out, the route thereafter, will be much easier to travel on. Hang on and I am sure you can smile more and have more fun! You are right, life is too short to be all serious. However, I always believe in leading a balanced life. Let's Play Hard and Work Hard too. Let's make the best out of our life.
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
3 Aug 08
yea...!! That is the actually spirit of living!! No matter what you do just give it your BEST!!! And if you are living then live to the fullest!!!!
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
28 Jul 08
Hi dear well, u should share feeling, sad stories but not to all, only to some selective people and friends, who u really think care about u But for the rest of World, pose as strong and sdatisfied, as unfortunately we have majority of people who will make fun of it rather solving or sharing it So Enjoy, Cheer up Take care
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
28 Jul 08
Yes that's what I have learned .. not to share your problems with every one.. Stay happy and spread smile.. There are always things to be happy about. Many people have asked me why I stay sad every time.. Can you believe boring my friend is very common.. but yesterday I bored my own MOTHER!!! My own mother got bored of me.. (don't take is literally) but she did get bored yesterday night while dinner as my father is out of town.. But she got bored of her own daughter.. I have got to change NOW!!!thanks for your response. :)
cupid74
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
28 Jul 08
Thats Great u just need to adjust ur lifestyle and ur thought style and u will be Lively Girl as i know u somewhat so just relax Enjoy Life As its one Time Take care i sent u PM as well
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Nic
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
2 Aug 08
Sad stories break hearts, and as far as am concerned, I love happy stories-but as for your case, we share your pain-since you are here on mylot, I can only say, please life is what you really make it-if make it gloom-it will run on the gloomy platform until you give it another course-please make your life worth living by taking full charge of the situation! Dont be lonely if you can help it-man is no island!
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
2 Aug 08
Yea.. Even I love happy stories.. And yes I am learning that now that life is actually what you make of it! NO one else can hinder it unless you want them to. thanks for your response.
kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Aug 08
THat's good for u, to know when to move on in life and keep it that way ^_^ There will always be a time to grief, a time to be happy, a time to be serious and a time to play ^_^ SO, nobody can be sad always, and when u think that u are miserable enough, always think that there will be ple much more miserable and sadz than u ^_^ NO matter how negative a thing is, there will always be a postivie side to it, just like a coin, got both head and tail ^_^
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stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
3 Aug 08
Yes that is what I am trying to do now days!! Trying to see the positive part of everything I could and trying to make the most of whatever free time I get!!! Thanks for responding!!!