Comparing the achievements: Will it helps encourage or discourage them?

I think every body will compare the performance of the child with those who have performed better than your child and some time it can prove to be adverse also and the child feels inferiority complex and it disturb the proper growth in life. If we compare with the better some time we must compare with those not up to his/her mark.

honestly speaking i don't have my kid to be call at this moment but i had already passed that emotion .. and base on my observation regarding children since i love babies and i love to observe their feelings regards that things that surround them..... i can says that never try to compare your kids to somebody that might can cause them selves's thinking that they are not intelligent like the one you compare d you know what all you have to do to your children is to cheer them up in times of there sad moment and try you best to cove up your responsibility being as there parents and support whatever their academic and extra curricular .. if you think that what you children do can make them happy and can't cause to their future harm then support it... try to encourage your children .... but you have to have your enough time for them so they can feel that you are in their side no matter what happened ... and in times of school crisis try to cheer them up .. let them feel that you support them never ignore your kids needs ... give your attention equally. happy mylotting!

Hi. No, comparing your kids to others makes your children feel as if they can't meet your expectations. There may be worse ways to try and motivate a kid, but comparison is a negative experience. No one can be compared to another. Parents need to cherish and compliment their children's accomplishments. A positive attitude and a parent's support will help a child to grow up confident and capable.

my daughter is always telling me not to compare her to anyone. everytime i said that. i thnk shes right. cause people are all different.