How you take life??as it comes or you want to be the maker of your destiny??

@madhan2u (488)
India
July 28, 2008 7:21pm CST
For me i want to be the creator of my own destiny... Basically i am a motivated person...But now i am facing many failures.... I dont mind failures because they are the sttepping stones for success.... I will soon become a man....so that world will see me... how about you??
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@harishv (151)
• India
29 Jul 08
I want to be the maker of my own destiny. I never want some one to make my destiny. I always want to take decisions on my own. I take my friends suggestions but final decision would be mine because no one knows me better than I. Failures may occur but i wont feel that it repeats all the time.
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@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
ya..If it occurs we must be full of courage.. Courage-the ability to act when we are afraid.. thanks for your response
@mykmari_08 (2465)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
What a great fighting spirit and courage you've got there. Everyone goes through this journey called life and sometimes would find that the road is bumpy. Different signboards are displayed along the way serving as obstacles or hurdles in our lives. Depending on our reaction and the action we take upon them shapes us to be the person we are. Some of us may even stumble and fall but a few of these people tend to look at the problems and misfortunes longer than they should, instead of standing up and continuing with our journey. I believe that in general, everyone makes his or her own destiny. Whether he or she lets other people (parents, guardians, friends) makes the decisions for himself or herself, this person is letting them do it and somehow, he or she is aware that her destiny is partly made or built by other people. Personally, I've got to admit that life isn't rosy at all for me and my own family. I've been married for more than five years now but we still haven't got any land or house we could call our own. Though I'm still not giving up; I know that all our dreams, which my husband and I planned of even before we got married, will be realized and visible in the soonest possible time, with God's help.
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@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
yes Please dont give up... thanks for your response
@alpha7 (1910)
• France
29 Jul 08
Failures are not meant to kill you but to challeng you,if you know that you're been tested,you will be prepare, but if it comes to wickedness for you to pass,forget it,i'd rather fail than harming others. However,if you are forced to fail;what do you do about that,i mean take one,either to fail or to die,which one will you take?
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@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
sure..i agree with you.. thanks for your response
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
I think everyone make their own decision, not all decision are right, but usually this wrong decision make us learn and be better person. Problems are just temporary their a lot of solutions and options. We cannot be perfect cause were just human. We make our own path our own life and making it real. Have a nice day!
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@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
ya lets learn from our mistake and start winning.... thanks for your good comment
@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
29 Jul 08
I think everyone wants to be the maker of their own destiny but it's not always easy. That's why there are others who take life as they come. I take all the challenges that life throws at me but how I am supposed to respond to these challenges should be all up to me. cheers! :)
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@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
I agrees everything is not easy... I have troubles but i have a win-win policy towards life thanks for your response
@shinymood (406)
• China
29 Jul 08
It's great to be a motivated person like you. I'm trying to be optimistic and head on no matter what stands in the way. Sometimes it happens that you try very hard to achieve a goal yet it fails. But that doesn't mean we should give up trying. One might not make it if he sticks to his goal but he'll absolutely gets nowhere if he doesn't give it a try.I love the saying "Man contrives,God decide". We need a little luck sometimes to be successful but after all success is there for those who are prepared and ready.
@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
you are correct my frend(shinymood) let be optimistic and be ahead of others thanks for your response
• India
29 Jul 08
listen to the ALCHEMIST(book by paulo coehlo) "IF you have the deepest desire,universe will conspire to get you the same" i strongly believe in this..Lets think in the scientific way.Suppose you have a great belief or thought.Thoughts are nothing but electromagnetic vibrations produced by the pineal gland of the brain.If it is powerful or if it has high frequency it will set waves in the surrounding ether and propagate like waves of light.This will reach the other person's etheric plane ,make the same undulations in his plane and finally make him think like you.Thats how public opinions are made.. U CAN MAKE THE WORLD THINK LIKE YOU.. Then why should we worry about destiny..All we have to do is to cultivate our mind and make it powerful to make you successful in whatever u do... Believe in yourself.. Concentrate on your thoughts.. Be focussed on what u need in your life.. And work outrageously for it..:-)
@madhan2u (488)
• India
29 Jul 08
Really Great!!! Let think like a winner..