Strip club door girl... Any shame?

@kymber86 (165)
United States
July 29, 2008 8:37pm CST
Okay, So I used to work as a dancer a long long time ago. I am past that phase in life. I realized that it was a little degrading to me and my husband, so I quit. Anyway, I am now working as a door girl and waitress at another gentleman's club. Do you think that still classifies me in the same boat as before?
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gitfiddleplayer
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
30 Jul 08
No, you're not dancing for money now, you're just working and making a living without compromising your self or your relationship. I've never been in your situation so I can't offer much advise but if you feel guilty about it then maybe you should speak with your hubby and see if he thinks it causes any ill feelings on both your parts.
kymber86
@kymber86 (165)
• United States
30 Jul 08
He was the one that suggested that I go to work there. We have hit a financial rough spot so we are strapped for money. It was an easy fix to a serious problem. Thank you for your view!
Scorpionok
@Scorpionok (343)
• Brazil
30 Jul 08
like you've said this was a gentleman's club so i believe it isn't degrading i believe it is fine. but if you was waitress at hotters or something like that this really will be degrading xD but anyway i think this is your choice and not us. this one my point of view and i believe you do what you think is better to you and if you think this is the same thing you did before just try another one. thanks, Scorpionok.
kymber86
@kymber86 (165)
• United States
30 Jul 08
thank you for your response!
sreejithsreenivas
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
9 Aug 08
I think only you can take correct decision regarding this subject.It is not right to grade the current work you are doing as a bad one.If you are satisfied with this job,then you can continue this job.