Alas, has by beauty faded dear lover

Armed Forces Canada, Europe, Middle East
July 30, 2008 4:14am CST
When my husband and I married I weighed 110 LBS. Even after I gave birth to our four children, I managed to keep my weight down to about 120Lbs. I can remeber asking my husband how he would feel if I gained weight sometime in our lives. His response was a simple one, "If you gain to 130Lbs. you will be too fat for me." Ok I thought, rude but ok. I do not have much trouble maintaining my weight so no big drama to worry about here. 9 years has passed and we have become great friends and have become even more in love through this passing time. I am now over 30 and my situation on weight gain has changed. I began gaining weight and the usual remedies stopped working. I have now gained to 163 LBS. My husband, fortunately has not said a word about rolling me to the fat farm but he is hugging the edge of our king size bed quite agressivly. Poor me, right? Wrong! The man laying next to me who had a wonderful 190LBS, muscular body, is now 260LBS. and his extra ia sagging onto the floor. I say poor him. At least my body parts are still around me. Besides its like I told him. Men can look at Paris Hilton and all the other babes out there today, and say that their beauty wins hands down compared to me, but put them in my life of having four kids, stretch marks and everything else that us mothers sacrafice to produce a beautiful family, and I win miss sexy of the year. No contest here Paris. Eat you heart out! LOL :)
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Jul 08
Kudos to you lady. I appreciate yours thoughts and you are undoubtedly Miss sexy of the year and for years to come. All mothers, home makers are!! With all love and thoughtfulness you have made this such a beautiful post! I am sure your family is just proud of you. You are the best and I am sure you look darn beautiful with those lbs. Happy loving, happy living.
• Armed Forces Canada, Europe, Middle East
30 Jul 08
Why thank you mimpi911 and of course you are right, All mothers and home makers deserve an award for all that they bear with a grin:)
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
30 Jul 08
I agree totally. Hats off to them.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
30 Jul 08
I want to thank your hubby for being silent on your weight gain-my own wife was a slender tall beauty at the time of our marriage-she now weighs 100kg-(ooops! I dont know how many lbs these are)but I have completely no problem with this-infact she looks beautifully fleshy and I have grown to love flesh, it is very comforting-am also not the petit man i wa at th time of our marriage, these are body changes that come with time, it must be celebrated not loathed!
• Armed Forces Canada, Europe, Middle East
30 Jul 08
Right you are sir and even though I take my moments to bathe in the humor of our everyday lives, I would still rather roll myself up on a cold winter night between my husbands blanket of rolls, rather be without him. The fact that some can except the changes as they grow older is called the grandest word of all, LOVE:) I very much appreciated your response. Have a lovely day or evening, which ever it may be for you. Also tell the wife I said hello and congrats on choosing a marvelous partner for life;)
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
30 Jul 08
yes,many women after married then they will became fater and fater.that don't blame on ourself.that is not changed by anyone.so we must have a health mind to treat this.
• Armed Forces Canada, Europe, Middle East
30 Jul 08
Yes the time does take its toll on our bodies and a healthy mind helps out a great deal unless of course you can afford lipo suction, gross!! Any matter, thank you for your response. Have a nice day:)