I wonder of some people have forgotten how to be nice?

It's a good article and I think it's about being kind, respectful, polite and helpful. Is that the definition of 'nice'? I think good manners are important but they are not everything. It's what is felt in the heart that matters. I'm sure many people think they are 'nice' but I don't always trust people who seem to make too much effort to appear nice. I think it should be a natural result of how they behave that makes others think of them as a nice person. I think I would rather be thought of as a good, kind and loving person, rather than a nice person, but I do agree that it costs nothing to be nice. I always try to give a smile or exchange a greeting with strangers and I will try to help anyone if I see they are in need of assistance.

Hello youdontsay, I don't think I am a rude person and not too sure if others think that I am nice here. As far as I know, I never tried to irritate others here. I fully understand that this is a public site. You can share your thoughts, give your ideas and comment but you don't have the right to judge others. We can't simply judge others just because we don't like his/her idea. I came across many who feel like they're being judged wrongly by certain members here. I pity them but I am not the one who will get so much anger and decided to help others to ban that certain member..