More boys, boys, boys
By winterose
@winterose (39887)
Canada
July 30, 2008 2:05pm CST
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Ah the antics of a 14 year old, can you guys remember that far back. I certainly can. Boys were on my mind but I was not really ready for a relationship with a boy. I was still too immature although if the 14 year old me was standing here telling you that I at 14 would be telling you otherwise, I wanted a boyfriend, so there!
Here is an excerpt of the story, I hope you will read it in its entirety
I wanted to go upstairs and into the house at that very moment but he persisted that he had something very important that he had to discuss with me. There seemed to be no way that I could get out of it. Instead of talking he took me by surprise and grabbed my face and forced a French kiss on me!
Discussion Question
Do you remember your very first kiss was it a pleasant or not so pleasant experience? How old were you at the time?
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8 responses
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
30 Jul 08
Oh my, such a long time ago and so much digging in the back of the brain for this one but yes, I think I remember my first kiss. It was from the boy that lived across the street from us. I know it was awkward and the best I can remember it was a good first kiss but I didn't let there be a second kiss from him. Come to think of it when all of us kids in the neighborhood were out playing baseball he was the one who hit the ball that I pitched to him and it hit me in the eye and give me a huge black eye. I was in the 5th grade at the time and he was in the 6th.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
30 Jul 08
oops that was awful too, but I can still conjure that awful taste lol, you know when you are not prepared for something what a shock.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
31 Jul 08
Ouch! what a way to get a black eye! I think what is worse when french kissing is if they smoke..now that taste yucky! like licking a ashtray or a dirty sock! Well winterose I went and read the full story it was good. I enjoyed it alot. I tried to post a comment. Sorry. Can't wait to read more..
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I think we all go through that boy crazy stage between 12-15 years old and wanted boyfriends but usually at that age the boys are age still thought girls had cooties or were immature or so we thought at the time. Oh that brings memories of my first french kiss at the age of 13(I looked older and acted older) by a 19 year old boy. I was so shocked I bit down on his togue and and didn't let loose till be said he wouldn't do that no more. It was a invasion of my mouth that I just wasn't ready for or really liked at the time. It happened again with another boy when I was 15 I swear I almost gagged. What is it with guys always wanting to french kiss before they even learn how? I asked him also to not do that that I didn't like it at all. And until I met my now husband who was older his 28 to my 16-1/2 that I learned to actually enjoy such kissing.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I still would rather have just a open mouth kiss then a french one with the tongue. For me it is much more enjoyable then the french kissing.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Jul 08
I still don't like it, lol, I think the boys like it because it is still penetrating a girl, just not by the more provocative way
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@chertsy (3797)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Yes, I remember my first kiss. I had to sneak away with the guy to kiss him in fear of being caught by a teacher. It was actually a nice kiss, wish it lasted longer. I didn't get to kiss another guy until I was around 17. I didn't go any further with a boy until I was 18. My first real kiss, I was around 17. I had kisses before that, but it was mainly just pecks here and there.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
11 Aug 08
I always thought everyone remembered there first kiss but I see some people here do not.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
7 Aug 08
that makes the two of us then, I will never forget that first kiss it was the worse kiss I ever had.
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
31 Jul 08
I don't remember my first kiss!
We were a kissy, huggy family so kisses were frequent.
I do remember that when I was about 13 this older boy( maybe 15)
was working for an elderly lady I helped do chores. I thought of him as
ok but not a boy friend and then on day he looked right in my eyes and kissed me.
I was thinking of him more as a brother or cousin and it made me kinda sick
to my stomach for him to kiss me. I was very upset.
xoxoxoxoxo
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
1 Aug 08
gee I am glad that I am not the only one who found my first kiss to be lest than satisfying lol
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Jul 08
I am glad that it was a great experience for you.
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@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
1 Aug 08
I was not allowed to date. The only exception was my prom. I met the nicest guy and boy did I do some talking to get my Mom and Dad to let me have him take me to the prom. The night of the prom I was all excited. He came and picked me up and had a very good time at the prom. When he brought me home we sat out in his car and talked some. He came around and opened the door for me and helped me out of the car. He walked me up to the door and we stood there for a minute. Then he planted a very soft and gentle kiss on my lips. I went inside on a cloud. My very first kiss and what a gentleman he was.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
7 Aug 08
gosh rose i really don't think my first kiss was that memorable as i really can not remember it at all.otherwise my memory is definately going.i think it must of been horrible,and i can not even recall who it was at the time.cheers sue
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
8 Aug 08
gosh I always that every woman remembered her first kiss whether she liked it or not, shows what I know lol
