He's my bestfriend
By pinkycire
@pinkycire (24)
July 31, 2008 8:20am CST
I have a bestfriend and we enjoy being together. Other people would think that he is my boyfriend. We've been together as friends for a couple of years already and only this year that our friendship ended. I don't know what's wrong with him. I send him sms messages, call him or even share a pre-paid load to him. But still I didn't even get a reply from him. I really felt bad at that time so I never talked to him. What should I do? I missed our friendship and I missed him a lot. Did I do something bad that he doesn't like?
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6 responses
@brucekaushik (891)
• India
31 Jul 08
ohh that is sad because i had a similar experiance recenly and i was almost heart broken with that ... now i am ok but i was really hurt when that thing happened to me.
anyways good luck to you friend.
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@brucekaushik (891)
• India
6 Aug 08
no actually mine is a lengthy story and also had a bit confusing end ... but now things are fine with me, but she did not call me back and now i am starting to forget her also ...
anyways have a great life ahead ...
@pinkycire (24)
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4 Aug 08
I think it really hurts. But, there's nothing I can do about it because it's his choice. Maybe, he chose not to talk to me or it's just like that he found a new girlfriend and his girlfriend is jealous? How about in your case? Don't you mind sharing it with me? Thanks and have a good day!
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@markgadiano (895)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Why not try to give him a visit, for he might have lost his cellphone? Or if not he might be sick, there were lots of factor to be consider, dont just jump into some conclusion. Anyway he was been your friend, so visiting him is a very good gesture on your part and so on his part.
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@jaghead1179 (199)
• Philippines
5 Aug 08
i can relate to your story i also have a bestfriend since high school and weve been together for almost 14 years already. a lot of people think that were an item even his family and some of our friends dont buy the idea that were just "friends". i do feel somthing for him but i just keep to myself i dont want to ruin the friendship that weve had for so long. he went to manila to find a job we do communicate through phone but just this year i dont why he doesnt even bother to call me or text me..i missed him too..i dont know if i said something that hurts him.
@krayzietam (832)
• United States
31 Jul 08
How long has it been that he hasn't talked to you? A couple days or a couple weeks?If you truly don't know what you did, then you probably didn't do anything. Maybe something happened in his world and he just needs space right now. If he wants to talk to you then maybe he will come back around soon and explain what is going on. Time answers all. If you are truly concerned, I think you should explain that on a voicemail since he won't pick up your calls. 
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@pinkycire (24)
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4 Aug 08
We are classmate now in one of our class, sometime he would talk if he has to ask me something. But, I think it's nearly 1 year that he didn't reply with my sms messages and answer my phone calls. And he doesn't have any voicemail or something. Yesterday, I tried to talk to him but, it didn't work. I wanna ask him for lunch like the usual thing we do but, he is really avoiding me. T_T
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
2 Aug 08
No U didnt do anything bad.Just give him some time to understand that and he will come back to you
@pinkycire (24)
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4 Aug 08
I think one year has been a long time? ^_^ I hope he will come back soon. I need a friend. T_T
@dodgeman270 (123)
• United States
31 Jul 08
well im a guy so i might be able to help u on this. he could be busy or when something like this happens we get a little confused and need sometime to figure it out so give him a little time and hell pull through. everything will be fine.good luck.
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@pinkycire (24)
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4 Aug 08
Well thanks for the reply dodgeman270. But he wasn't busy at all or may he is busy with his computer games? ^_^ anyway thanks a lot.
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